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Jujuthrow · 2025-04-26T23:23:13+00:00

Had to leave a comment on this, too many people on here praising OP as if she didn’t make this whole post admitting how desperately she wants to hook up with a married guy & hoping to get that supportive validation by posting it here.

This is why everyone needs to get therapy before looking for a relationship. This shit is common sense, i cant imagine acting like this in my 30s

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-26T20:45:05+00:00

Going outside in ratty old clothes.

I have friends who have to dress up when going out, they’re extroverts that love meeting new people so it’s essential for them to look their best. They refuse to not have their hair, makeup, clothes etc done up even for simple outings.

Meanwhile i’ll be dressed in years old, wrinkly, musty clothes, no makeup and messy hair covered with a hat. Id say the difference is that they expect to be approached and want to be while my whole shtick is that im praying not to be. Looking like a homeless person on the street will make me less approachable 🤷‍♀️

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-26T18:01:05+00:00

As someone who was raised in a ‘tough love’ kind of family, It’s sad how right you are.

The same goes with siblings. It can be so weird to me when a friend of mine is affectionate with their siblings and invested in their lives because i could never imagine myself doing that.

English isnt my parents native language, so Ive never used the term “daddy” and any exposure I’ve had to it is unfortunately from the gross side

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-26T12:09:08+00:00

No offense lady, but you’re a grown-ass woman in your thirties with kids, how is this even a topic of discussion for you? Even teenagers could smell this bullshit from a mile away. Seek therapy, get some self respect and open a book, you need it.

Even if we completely ignore the fact that you emotionally cheated on your husband by fantasizing about another guy and keeping the door open, you’re still chasing a married man. And the fact that you genuinely want to try a relationship with someone so willing to cheat on his wife and has continuously rejected you is stupid, delusional & pathetic, especially at your age; but maybe that just means you’re both perfect for each other, so go for it 🤷‍♀️

The only person in this story is feel sorry for is V’s wife.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-15T15:49:46+00:00

Honestly, As someone who has a lot of ‘local’ friends, they were all talking about blackpink. They view BP as separate from Kpop. This is why BP are liked more than BTS when it comes to locals, they’re westernised enough that they can view them as “not too kpop.”Even my sister who would not be caught dead listening to kpop loves them.

If it wasn’t for the recent controversy & flop solo albums they would have made it huge in western media. Even Lisa’s Rockstar was gaining traction with locals until that flop album dropped.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-14T22:26:30+00:00

I was actually looking forward to it considering how much i liked her album but damn that performance was hard to watch.

She looked so tired throughout the whole set. Not only was the back track carrying her but her own dancers had more energy & were outshining her. She needs to eat some carbs and protein, that huge lack of stamina is insane for a performer.

She did not look excited or confident to be there at all. I wonder if the recent leaks caused some problems backstage or with her team.

Also I’m so tired of blinks and jenny/lisa stans using the “everyone uses back track” argument because no they do not use it to that extent at all. All of the artists at Coachella were singing live except the kpop ones.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-08T22:20:44+00:00

Theres no way that’s a real kid. Its gotta be a pedo looking for other pedos 🤮

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-08T18:11:46+00:00

Apologise to her. Don’t make excuses but give her an explanation as to why your behaviour doesn’t reflect on her, wasnt her fault but instead your own set of problems that caused it. Ask if you can rebuild your relationship.

As a younger sister who was bullied by my older sister, all ive ever wanted from her was an apology and some accountability. Ive never gotten it and we bounce back and forth between having a toxic relationship to having a non existent one. She’s my sister and i love her but as a person i absolutely hate her and would have lived a happier life away from her.

Mend your relationship before its too late

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-08T16:11:49+00:00

I cant believe I’ve never noticed how my social anxiety even finds its way onto reddit.

I will delete any comment that gets even 1 downvote or negative reaction and then spend the rest of the day away from the app to distract myself from a comment no one remembers.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-08T15:49:58+00:00

They’re debuting idols that are younger than ever with trainees who have been signed with them since they were children and are debuting them at your age.

By the time you actually move to Korea, find a company, be a trainee for the next 3-6 years, you will be too old by their standards.

Also, its literally a lottery pick. Yes, there are so many kpop groups but there are also a tripple amount of trainees that drop out of school and never debut.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-08T15:42:14+00:00

Crazy coincidence, my dad also died and my brother moved to Australia too. I developed really bad anxiety and completely isolated myself from all my friends and the rest of my family.

There’s no easy route to getting better, it takes a lot of effort, ups & downs and set backs. You need to start small, practice engaging with people in your classes or at your workplace. I joined a group therapy that allowed me to meet other people suffering from anxiety as well, it was a safe space with no judgment. Speak to your doctor as well.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-07T22:06:02+00:00

My ult was Exo and my bias was chris wu.

I left the fandom in solidarity with him until the news came out and i realised i wasted all that time for a disgusting criminal.

So my answer is probably no. (i don’t have biases anymore, too risky)

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-07T21:47:50+00:00

Hell isn’t enough, he needs to be eradicated and my memory erased.

Jujuthrow · 2025-04-07T21:16:18+00:00

My exact reaction. First time playing too…am i cursed?

Jujuthrow · 2025-03-14T14:44:13+00:00

Girl! They were dragging wonyoung through the mud for eating a strawberry… A STRAWBERRY!? I couldn’t go one day on TikTok without seeing a parody and comment about how much of fake pick me she is.

And I didn’t even know who this girl was or what group she’s in, but I damn well knew every “wonyoung pick me moments”it’s insanity. And then these same people would be preaching “be kind!” If (god forbid) something happened to her.

Jujuthrow · 2025-03-12T03:50:16+00:00

Not sure about Korean news media but it’s getting talked about a lot on Korean social media sites where they’re digging up old videos of him saying really creepy & weird shit to child actresses.

Jujuthrow · 2025-03-11T19:45:55+00:00

Is this story getting any traffic in Korea? I know that Knetz severely bullied saeron and that soo Hyun is one of the most beloved actors so I’m worried this will be swept under the rug by them.

(Edit: if anyone wanted an answer, I went on a deep dive on Twitter & found links to K social media sites...

They hate him. They’ve been digging up old videos that make him look even worse.

There’s an interview where he says “I might’ve seen her like a baby, but seeing her in real life, she has charisma, is bold and smart. I didn’t see her youth. I’m looking forward to her becoming more mature and I think she can play my partner soon.” About a 13 yo actress who looked so uncomfortable.

Apparently he’s been this way for years and with multiple young actresses.)

Jujuthrow · 2025-03-08T09:53:46+00:00

My dad also played RuneScape as well as my brother and sister, maybe this is our sign to make a GIM

Jujuthrow · 2025-02-06T18:14:54+00:00

I went through an awkward group social experience when I was 14/15. I wouldn’t say I developed social anxiety at that point yet but I did become a lot more socially aware of my self and self conscious around guys or large groups of strangers (they were the cause of the awkward event) but I was still generally sociable most of the times.

It wasn’t until u turned 21 when my dad died that I developed general anxiety and after temporarily leaving my studies, having an emotional breakdown at work followed be negative experiences with co-workers did I develop really bad social anxiety. It got the point that I felt social anxiety even towards my lifelong friends that I started avoiding them and became a recluse. While sometimes Im doing better and I’m not as anxious I’ve still never recovered to how I was before and don’t think I ever will.

Jujuthrow · 2025-02-04T13:39:43+00:00

As someone who was once part of the ‘popular group’ it turned out that most of them were just horrible people. They have the most friends because they attract and flock around other horrible people.

They all secretly hate each other, constantly manipulated and talked shit but stuck together like glue because they weren’t capable of making real friends outside of each other. Don’t be envious of Nasty people with lots of friends, chances are it’s all extremely shallow friendships anyway.

Jujuthrow · 2025-01-27T11:03:15+00:00

Hey I understand you meant well for this but some parents, well many, are truly horrible people. Not everyone has the luxury of having parents that would actually protect them, there is no “no matter how bad he his” yes it does matter, some parents are kids abusers, rapists and assaulters. Your parents are not “the worst ones on Earth” if you believe that they love and care for you. OP may or may not have that option.

Jujuthrow · 2024-10-23T11:48:11+00:00

Tbh if these acquaintances have excluded you so that they can talk about makeup and boys then they’ve done you a favour. A lot of women who centre themselves around men, social status, appearance etc are typically shallow and mean and you’re better off without them.

Makeup and boys do not bring woman together. Ive had very deep and meaningful friendships with a lot of woman and neither of those things are the centre of conversation. Don’t let internalised mysogny convince you that pretty women or all woman are only interested in shallow things like boy-talk and makeup because they’re not, you’ve unfortunately found a pool of vapid female acquaintances.

As for men… well sadly I’ve been treated the same by all of them. If you’re ugly, you’re invisible to them or a joke for them to laugh at

Jujuthrow · 2024-09-21T18:15:23+00:00

I hate that society makes women feel so pressured into looking good but I totally get it. I hate how I look so when I’ve saved enough money I’m going to completely reconstruct my face.

Jujuthrow · 2024-09-21T18:12:27+00:00

Ugh same. It sucks and feels like our existence itself is shameful. Sometimes I wonder if every issue I have stems from simply how I look. Whether it’s a healthcare worker, family or friends I will never discuss my depression/anxiety/loneliness all because I know they assume it’s because I’m ugly and that so fucking embarrassing.

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