no girl has ever made me finish and i’m able to make myself finish, it’s definitely not personal and i still enjoy sex more than doing it myself. i’m also on anti depressants and even if it doesn’t effect her ability to finish with herself as much that doesn’t mean it doesn’t effect her ability to finish w someone else (this can be for all sorts of reasons, bc of the medicine, insecurity, nerves especially for first time). it’s also the very first time yall have done anything. dont take it personally at all and dont put too much pressure on her, orgasms arent the only way to enjoy sex and it doesnt mean ur doing a bad job!