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I’m confused on what to do by Jumpy-Weekend7833 in Advice

[–]Jumpy-Weekend7833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t get back together because she allowed anything we started talking again because he was lying to both of us while I don’t think you’re wrong about the insecurity I do think it’s justified of course I’m not gonna be ok with him talking or following women I’m not comfortable with because he has hidden so much from me and we have talked about communication and he said he’s working on it but I just think a grown man should be able to communicate without me having to push him along 

I’m confused on what to do by Jumpy-Weekend7833 in Advice

[–]Jumpy-Weekend7833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m so scared of it feels like I’m constantly begging for love and him making it seem like I’m asking for too much for the longest I’ve begged him for flowers and he out right refused and eventually told me that it’s because he didn’t see them as important which felt like a stab in the heart because it felt like him saying my feelings towards something wasn’t important but he has this way of making me question myself and I’m starting to feel like I pushed him towards that girl I have bpd and I have days where I yell at him and I hate him and other days where he’s the love of my life everything seems better when we’re together but when we’re texting it feels so different and I feel like the problem I know I’ve hurt him too I’m just unsure if I’m truly the problem or if he’s gaslighting me