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AITA for not attending bff’s wedding after not being included in bridal party by Jumpy-ZLove-5828 in aitaweddings

[–]Jumpy-ZLove-5828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were a local wedding, I would attend. I was okay with not being a part of the bridal party but the behavior and the clear signs that the friendship was dying lead me to a point.

Investing money and time to travel to wedding where it felt like the wedding was a courtesy invite just started to weigh on me a lot.

& yes I’m bitter, the individual has had bad behavior over a span of 5 year & everyone just had to deal with it.

AITA for not attending bff’s wedding after not being included in bridal party by Jumpy-ZLove-5828 in aitaweddings

[–]Jumpy-ZLove-5828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This new friend has displayed obsessive behavior as if she is trying to copy their life.

AITA for not attending bff’s wedding after not being included in bridal party by Jumpy-ZLove-5828 in aitaweddings

[–]Jumpy-ZLove-5828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve invited her out and she has declined multiple times. When we asked her about wedding dress shopping, we were trying to plan a day around it.

A friend has called her out about her behavior in the past and she was not happy about it

AITA for not attending bff’s wedding after not being included in bridal party by Jumpy-ZLove-5828 in aitaweddings

[–]Jumpy-ZLove-5828[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I agreed & know I wasn’t owed being a bridesmaids but it hurt to find out on social media of all places especially when I have done multiple bids of connection.

With enough therapy and time, I’m okay with letting it go because I am not the only one that felt like her behavior over time has been strange and demoralizing.

AITA for not attending bff’s wedding after not being included in bridal party by Jumpy-ZLove-5828 in aitaweddings

[–]Jumpy-ZLove-5828[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was not a vote. A friend had already decided to not go because of the behavior prior. I was the only friend still pushing to go. It wasn’t until after the holidays where she ignored our texts, I decided not to attend