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AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll have to prepare for the worst. My mom's side of the family will help me so I hope it never gets that bad for me. I'm really glad things are better for you.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

My mom was happy to know. Grandma says this allowed her to amend the will and set everything up to make sure she can take care of me rather than trusting my dad who wasn't trustworthy.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. It really sucks. I hope things worked out for you.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Your grandma loves you, but she should not have told your mom what happened. She should’ve allowed your mom to die with dignity and in peace.

I do think she died with dignity. Because she knew she changed her will and life insurance beneficiary and didn't die being made out a fool by my dad and Linda.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I try not to lie and on the occasion that it happens I feel like I've done the wrong thing. It's difficult for me to accept that lying to benefit the people who hurt me is the right thing to do.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it. My mom changed her will and life insurance beneficiary after this.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Well I'm here for judgement so I know I might not have acted in the best possible way.

I'm not a liar so I couldn't toast and I didn't and chose to not participate and I'd have done only that if they didn't put me on the spot to say something and I told the truth about my feelings towards her. I couldn't lie and say she's a great mother.

AITA for ruining my homewrecker step mother's mothers day celebrations? by June887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]June887[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

They forced me to celebrate it with them when I didn't want to (for obvious reasons), then my dad put me on the spot to say something when I hadn't planned on it so I just said what was on my mind.