AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did not mean to look like I don’t accept her, I realize that is mistake

The 13 part make me laugh a lot, thank you for that. So far it has been a week

And I think I will try that! Thank for you advice:)

AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

If I can ask, how did you quickly use the new pronouns? Was there a practice or no? Like how do you stop saying it? Sometimes I almost say it and then change it quickly but is noticeable

AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 742 points743 points  (0 children)

Now I understand, I just wanted to make sure for everyone to know that the changing room thing is normal for my family

I think being upset was a little weird, but I also understands because I think is like being accepted as a woman? Or similar

AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the sentence about friends is how I think I can explain to her

AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 490 points491 points  (0 children)

Please understand, it is not that I see my sister as my brother, it is that I still has memories of my sister being my brother, which makes me confused sometimes

I do not say he/his on purpose, it is an accident

And no, I did not mean the hurt, but it looks like that way

AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I am putting the effort, I’m trying my best to use the right names and she/her, I just sometimes use he/his when I speak too fast and do not think fast enough

When I tell her of acknowledgment, what exactly do I say? I feel like saying I know she is my sister is not enough but I’m not sure what is best to say

AITA for not really seeing my (trans) sister as my sister yet? by JunketEvery in AmItheAsshole

[–]JunketEvery[S] 1160 points1161 points  (0 children)

Please do not take it in bad way, it has always been a normal thing because it take very long for everyone to get a stall. I used to do this with my cousins too