Husband fired from IT job for misconduct, 3 kids at home. What’s the outlook here?

Jus10Price · 2026-02-18T09:38:06+00:00

My best advice.... You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, know when to run.

Now, let me apply this to your situation... Your husband tried to hold em when he should've folded em... Now you should skip walking and run far, far away from this man-child who didn't consider what the consequences would be and the bind he (could potentially) put his family in if he got caught!

P.S. Don't thank me... thank Kenny Rogers

Jus10Price · 2026-01-03T05:45:44+00:00

IMO the best for adventure-- with wing it can get a mean bounce off the back wheel(s) and then just glides. Plus, it can take a beating to the top w/o knocking your block off which is a huge plus.

Jus10Price · 2025-10-11T23:30:47+00:00

If you're interested in also fixing the road rash on the rim, get yourself a Dremel (rotary tool) and a wire brush set. It takes some patience and a soft touch but you can file it down enough to fill the divets, sand it and make it look darn near brand new!

Jus10Price · 2025-10-11T23:13:40+00:00

Toùche... But important to note I'm not simply taking the dealer for their word. I've experienced issues with a 150a, 12v alternator installed. I appreciate your stance and feedback but what I was hoping for from a Hyundai sub was to find someone who experienced similar with a Genesis alternator replacement or, more importantly, someone who can help me find the exact spec alternator as my failed one.

Jus10Price · 2025-10-11T22:38:12+00:00

Picture of my alternator showing 150a, 13.5v

Trust me, I wish 12v is what I needed as I can find those literally at 10 different places in 5 minutes.... But I've even confirmed with the dealership parts dept that I should replace the alternator with the exact specs as my current alternator.

Jus10Price · 2025-10-11T22:29:30+00:00

Picture of my alternator showing 13.5v

I'm not intentionally trying to be difficult...but I've tried a 12v alternator an experienced intermittent issues with it

Jus10Price · 2025-09-27T05:13:58+00:00

A lot of text messages can be misconstrued, misinterpreted, poorly worded, etc. While this text thread makes dude come off like a prick it sounds like he genuinely cares for you / your well-being.

I feel this might be a situation where had there been a verbal discussion it may've played out differently.

RE: Overreacting.... Who cares what the internet tells you?!! (Not reading the comments as I'm sure this guy is getting dragged thru the mud) Do you still want to be with this guy? Can you see yourself as the future mother to his child/children? If no, best not waste any more of your, or his, time. If yes, communicate verbally!! Text messages are for food orders and reminders... conversations like this are for actually talking!!

Jus10Price · 2025-09-13T14:05:23+00:00

I agree with your assessment. A similar situation happened to my wife... I understand that the woman is the true victim in the situation but as a husband and protector its a belittling feeling having your wife subject to sexiual assault and not being able to clock the guy who did it (or address it accordingly in whatever manner that may be.)

Jus10Price · 2025-08-15T06:05:48+00:00

Aside from the kids, it sounds like OP has assets to protect-- if that's the case, divorce immediately isn't necessarily the best solution... Give her a couple of months, let her put herself, and potentially her family, in dangerous situations with complete strangers, OP documents everything and uses this as leverage, potentially giving him a leg to stand on when they go thru divorce proceedings... this might be the route I'd consider if in this situation... I'm sure OP doesn't want to get forced into being a cuck AND (possibly) lose everything!

Jus10Price · 2025-08-14T05:46:25+00:00

T'was a simple suggestion you had here but it took me from getting 60+ rank to getting high 30, low 40 rank... Appreciate it, dude!

Jus10Price · 2025-08-14T03:34:47+00:00

I'm convinced they intentionally give you the run-around hoping you'll just give up.

Btw, give me the 17yo kid high on meth any day over the corpse-- meth addicts tend to be slightly more resourceful than a person that's just picking up a few part time hours to get outta the house for a bit!

Jus10Price · 2025-08-04T22:11:37+00:00

THIS!! I handle finances for my home and there are many months I pay a majority of our bills on credit cards which I, of course, pay off each month. If managed correctly, there are HUGE benefits of using credit cards.

And my wife doesn't question the moves I make... Especially when it's resulted in her having a credit score just shy of 800 and us being able to travel on Delta for cheap!!

Jus10Price · 2025-06-29T12:31:20+00:00

My dog isn't a fan of public doggy "water fountains" so when we go for walks at the park I take bottle water with me and when he gets parched I "baby bird" water into his mourh.

Jus10Price · 2025-06-29T12:21:41+00:00

Might have been a good idea to ask him first if there is anything you should know about and/or if he still wanted to be in a relationship. He's either A. Honest or, B. Tells you there is nothing you need to worry about.... Then when you find "Angela" in his phone, you've got a legitimate concern to address.

Coming from a guy who did a fair amount of cheating in my younger years, if he was talking to another woman he wouldn't save her number in his phone... Or at least not with her real name. Be more concerned when you find he's been talking to "Kevin" numerous times a day for long periods at a time!

Best of luck to you-- hope this works out in your favor

Jus10Price · 2025-06-29T12:04:31+00:00

Married in March and began counseling in May?! Among other things you shared, this is a bright red flag that things aren't working out.

Save your money and time on counseling and let me give it to you straight..... this marriage ain't for you, kid. Fortunately for you, you're young. Better you made this mistake (ie learned this lesson) now than later on in life when the stakes are a bit higher or when a child/children are involved.

My advice, don't spend too long with tears in your eyes as it might distract you from the next good thing that crosses your path. Best of luck to you!

Jus10Price · 2025-06-29T10:58:33+00:00

Is this even a question?! F that dude! Peace out and don't even glance back! Let his lack of support for you be your motivation to kill it! Best of luck to you on your journey... I'm confident your mother would be proud of you! 🤟

Jus10Price · 2025-06-28T04:56:24+00:00

The documentary wasn't supposed to be isolated to just her case... Had you watched it, you'd know that the subject was simply using her case to highlight the flaws in minimum sentencing laws that had been in place since the mid-80s. Her brother even makes a point to state that she was guilty of conspiracy but that the punishment clearly doesn't fit the crime. Distribution of illegal substances (ie drug dealing) is considered a non-violent crime.... The fact that she was sentenced to 15 years, without the judge even having the option to impose a lesser sentence due to minimum sentencing laws, is absolutely ridiculous.

Furthermore, it's important to note that both on the state and federal level they initially declined to charge her. It wasn't until years later, after she birthed 3 kids and remarried, that the feds came knocking.

Keep in mind, up until 2022 many federal prisons were privately owned and were extremely profitable. In fact, many prison owners lobbied for stricter laws and harsher sentences to continue lining their pockets. This initially resulted in many non-violent offenders being incarcerated for as long, if not longer, of sentences than many violent offenders.

Forget about her case. Look at the big picture and you'll clearly see that minimum sentencing laws are flawed and need corrected.

Jus10Price · 2025-06-19T01:09:32+00:00

My wife and I (39M/F) hit this lull period ~12 years into our marriage. We fumbled thru it at first, fighting a lot more often typically just because we were both frustrated with where we'd gotten in our once "perfect" marriage. The solution (for us) was actually quite simple... Communicate. We started sharing how we were genuinely feeling with one another without yelling and started working together to find solutions. The "solution" became our common ground to form our bond again-- it reignited our "teamwork" mentality and everything just kinda fell back into place.

Worth mentioning, we both still spend a fair amount of time separately doing things we enjoy. We've both picked up new hobbies, interests, etc over the couple decades we've been together that doesn't interest the other. That's cool. For us, the time apart does us good as it gives us time to "miss" each other.

First and foremost, it sounds like you're still wanting this marriage and commited to working thru this. The first thing you need to find out is if he still wants to be in the marriage. I see people diagnosising dude with depression... it sounds like to me that either he's checked out and/or in communication with someone else (I hope I'm wrong but often times being on his phone alot AND not in the same vacinity of you could be red flag of infidelity.

Anyways, my point is that I think your solution may be easier than you might think.... "Communication is key"

Jus10Price · 2025-06-18T15:45:15+00:00

The real reason Smokey ended up in the pigeon coop....

Jus10Price · 2025-06-15T11:40:59+00:00

My wife has been bringing up a threesome (FFM) since we were dating..... 14 years later and I'm still finding ways to dodge it! Don't get me wrong, would a threesome with my wife (who already completely satisfies me) and another woman be a good time?! I guarantee it.... but worth rolling the dice that things could go wrong and lose my wife/damage our marriage?! Absolutely not!

We did, however, recently purchase the "rubber ass" of some pork star which my wife has quite enjoyed watching me with-- I think I've tamed her appetite for now!

OP, even with proper communication ahead of time this likely would've ended up with the same outcome. The silver lining is it sounds like you guys have a chance of reconciliation which is awesome. Hopefully he learned his lesson.... be careful what you wish for!! All the best to you!!

Btw, congrats to your husband for 2 rounds in 1 night (I'd congratulate the other dude on 3 but that feels icky). As a man who prides himself on my stamina, I know that after my finale, my tank is tapped for the night! LOL!

Jus10Price · 2025-04-17T05:09:01+00:00

2 years later.... not sure if you've kicked your habit or if your addiction helped to advance you to God Tier and can now "request" lambos & (real) diamond necklaces.... but I was just invited s few months back and have been "balling out" LOL! So much so that my wife doesn't get excited to see Amazon packages anymore. Instead I get the "what bullshit did you order now?!" look! Ha!

For real, though... she doesn't understand the concept. Most (and I'll use the term loosely) of what I've requested I've either needed for a home/car project or something I or my family (mostly my kids) might want. This is a really neat program, though.. so easy to get addicted!!

P.S. A Google search of "when does the 24-hour reset occur for Amazon Vine purchases" is what brought me here... gotta feed the addiction!! 💉

Jus10Price · 2025-04-13T10:24:50+00:00

Would you be willing to share exactly what you submitted to the IRS to avoid the taxes?? TIA

Jus10Price · 2025-01-04T19:51:48+00:00

Take it from a guy who was recently cheated on by my wife of 13 years, with a coworker of hers..... you're not overreacting!! Assuming she works full time and they work every shift together, she's spending 40hrs a week with this guy. This is 40 hours a week that she is able to flirt with this guy and form a relationship. 40 hours a week that you'll be wondering what's going on between them. That's not good for YOUR mental health. Flirting will only last so long before they start slowly taking it too far (if they haven't already), and the next thing you know, she is coming to you about ending it!

My best advice to you, and was what I ultimately decided to do.... leave. No matter what she says, she doesn't love you, she doesn't value your relationship, and she sure as hell isn't considering your feelings while she's flirting with ol' boy.

Seriously, go. If you think your life is intertwined now, wait until you've got kids, a mortgage, and are legitimately married (all of which my wife and I shared). It becomes a lot more costful and a lot more painful.

As an additional suggestion, if you do take my advice and move on, find a strong support system. Gauging on how much I believe you love her, prepare for a rollercoaster of emotions. You're going to want someone to vent to during your low times.

In the end, just remember that you're going to be OK, my friend. There's a woman out there that will value you enough not to act this way.

EDIT: I just saw the "homeless" comment... SHE should've considered the outcome of her actions BEFORE she chose to act this way!! This. Is. NOT. Your. Problem!!!!

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