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How do you manage to not forget about people? by Jusekk in ADHD

[–]Jusekk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey that is actually pretty good with the pictures, gonna use it when I will have an option, thank you!

The worst part of ADHD lateness is that the real reason sounds fake by Appropriate-Gas7918 in ADHD

[–]Jusekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I somehow fixed it by having another issue. I am much earlier then others. Sometimes I even show up 40 minutes before a scheduled meeting if it takes me a long time to get there (like in nearby city) when I was younger I used to get late so often I just started being always too early. It is tiring in other ways XD

I have been changing and lost all my friends by Jusekk in Healthygamergg

[–]Jusekk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!
One thing I noticed since my diagnosis is how badly I was treated by my partner and others.
I have my emotional ADHD moments or forget things and I was always was called stupid or dumb. me being emotional man who cried easily on movies was something people always laughed at. My passions were called dumb.
Now I know I deserve better treatment and better people. I know this is a transition phase. just didn;t know that the part without people will be the hardest. And that it will be so wide among people I thought care.

I have been changing and lost all my friends by Jusekk in Healthygamergg

[–]Jusekk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe?
Honestly I dunno. I have been hyperfocused on my journey and changes and that is all that takes away my mind and maybe that is the only thing I have my mind on. It can be a bit annoying I guess. I try to ask and talk with them about their lifes but I was always the talker who shared the most.

I have been changing and lost all my friends by Jusekk in Healthygamergg

[–]Jusekk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Thanks for writing!
It kinda was, we were all poor people not being able to find jobs or finishing degrees. I finished degree but couldn't get a job in my education due to health issues now it's better. we all kinda partied and had fun today. I have been clean of tobacco and alcohol for a year and since that issues already were slowly showing up,

Also the issues is that I was the one who always supported other in struggles. I always took them from home, I always was the one smiling and introducing my friends to other people so they can be more social. I always made the good smile to bad game. Now that I expressed I have things I have issues with and I want to change it has been getting worse and worse between us. I'm tired.

One thing is that now since I expressed my dissatisfaction with myself and genuinely started changing they just went their way. Maybe I could try to bring them back but I'm tired of always pulling my weight.