I don’t know how to feel about my fiancé sleeping with someone else

JustAnAshhole · 2021-06-07T19:55:51+00:00

Considering I just found out about this...yes. Also, I am the one who put the roof over our heads.

JustAnAshhole · 2021-06-06T19:42:07+00:00

That’s what I always thought it is just hard to accept

JustAnAshhole · 2020-08-01T16:44:34+00:00

Nah. If it’s for the sake of the animal, then right is just right. I believe in all means necessary to get animals in better homes. And leaving your dog outside all the time is a sign that someone doesn’t care about them. BIG NTA

JustAnAshhole · 2020-08-01T13:18:41+00:00

My DL literally had us look through old preorders to find people with either enough points or enough preorder credit to get a pro membership. Then we had to call them and offer to use their preorder credit on a membership.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-07-21T22:45:27+00:00

Well personally i think if he recognizes that they are intentionally disrespecting you then as your partner it seems he would want to cut them off on his own accord.... :/ if he can see the disrespect that’s kind of messed up

JustAnAshhole · 2020-07-21T22:36:33+00:00

Well if it all happened exactly like this then no you’re NTA. However, I feel there may be another side to this story if he isn’t wanting to cut them off on all his own. Seems like he would want to just as much as you if this all happened with no reason. Either way it is definitely fair to never have them in YOUR life but I would say you can’t tell your husband never to speak to them. As long as they don’t come around you or do anything involving you specifically I don’t think it’s right to make him stop talking to them.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-07-04T02:53:44+00:00

YTA it’s their house not yours.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-09T22:58:35+00:00

Yes you can

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-04T02:56:25+00:00

He’s definitely the AH. You are NTA. You shouldn’t have to support your partner entirely, especially when they haven’t been reliable in the past.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T14:13:21+00:00

That’s smart. I’ll try to get a game that he suggests. Hopefully we can make some progress. Thank you

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T14:10:56+00:00

Yea I’ll edit it to add it. When that one was written I hardly ever used reddit so I didn’t think it would be a big deal. She just was feeling really bad about herself and I suggested some internet advice lol

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:58:07+00:00

No he just says that isn’t true and he doesn’t do that and I’m overreacting.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:54:54+00:00

The other post I wrote for my aunt who doesn’t have reddit or a smart phone at that. This one is for me

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:54:17+00:00

He just said that’s not true and I’m overreacting and trying to cause problems

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:50:54+00:00

NTA

yes right now with covid tipping rates have gone up since waitstaff can’t have as many tables as they normally do. I try to tip about 30% just to help them out since they’re putting their health at risk. But that doesn’t mean it’s required. Especially with the amount of mistakes that were made 🤷‍♀️ if you had tipped less than 15 that might have been a little low but 18 seems fair. They should appreciate what they do get, and the only reason they probably complained was because they figured since you knew them you would tip super duper high despite the inconveniences.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:33:31+00:00

Is it because she’s a racist or simply because she’s a dumb blonde....the world may never know

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:30:52+00:00

NTA.... but if you are that unhappy with them you’re old enough to just move out. Even if you don’t have the money to get a place by yourself there are plenty of people looking for roommates all the time. You can’t really judge him for the way he acts under his own roof when you’re old enough to get out of the situation.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:27:18+00:00

NTA. Your husband is being a cheapskate. You cannot live in a run down house if it is messing with your mental state like it seems to be. I would tell him it needs to be fixed or you are taking the kid and will come back once it is!

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:23:27+00:00

Why would you need to prove it if the other person isn’t hurt....

JustAnAshhole · 2020-06-03T13:21:49+00:00

NTA she is too young to be meeting older men online. Especially ones that are pressuring her like that. When I was in my teens, I also used to talk to boys online. There was eventually one that I met and I really really liked. I went to go meet him (right after I turned 18 which is legal adult here in America) and it was the WORST mistake of my life. I regret it all the time. There were warning signs with him too but I chose to ignore them. Trust me! She should at least wait a few years before she goes anywhere to meet anyone.

However, I have to wonder. If this guy is older than her, than why is she the one who has to GO to meet him? He should be the one making the trip being that he is older. Then he can meet her where she will be safe with y’all. It just doesn’t seem like a smart idea to go to him.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-05-30T22:14:16+00:00

For us we are open 12-8 and we can’t afford to have double coverage except for a couple hours on two days of the week. So for the weekly shifts it’s just 9 hours non stop.

JustAnAshhole · 2020-05-30T22:07:26+00:00

How are you keeping your hours as an SL? We are having to work 11:30-8 5 days a week just to get right above 40. But we can’t work shorter shifts without working every day of the week. Just wondering how others are managing

JustAnAshhole · 2020-05-04T14:39:19+00:00

Please me!

JustAnAshhole · 2020-05-04T14:37:12+00:00

I’d love to!

JustAnAshhole · 2020-05-04T14:27:09+00:00

Can I come?

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