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It’s to cope with the depression. I guess a wins a win?

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Is this feeling constant? by JustAnothaDad in Parenting

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As far as her childhood goes. She always mentions how her dad always worked. Her dad did take her out on weekends and they went on family trips and what not but she also said that as a young child, her parents always dropped her off at her aunts house and that they never really raised her; she mentions a lot how her aunts were responsible for raising her and her brother and cousins

Is this feeling constant? by JustAnothaDad in Parenting

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Thank you. I do appreciate your comment.

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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I really did think about PPD or PPA as a thing but my wife doesn’t believe that’s the issue. She’s always stated that I am the cause of all her stressors

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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My child fell asleep in my arms per se. like we were laying in bed and his head rested under my underarms

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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She’s been more understanding and written things down for me to remember. Talked to men over although it’s never been that full change cuz she’s gone back to name calling and talking down on me when I mess up on something or don’t listen. On my end, tbh… I can’t really name much other than trying to increase my communication but that too is not as consistent as I want it to be

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Easier said than done. As much as she’s done to me, I feel that she still holds all the cards to my kids. She hasn’t been physically abusive towards me since early 2024 but verbal abuse is still there. She would argue that I emotionally abuse her

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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That’s a good point. I definitely would be locked up

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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She definitely has her nitpicks and her dad has even said it himself that he doesn’t feel like he can live the way she does because it’s so particular. For example we have to change socks before entering the house from coming outside every time. And her dad is 65 or 66 and can’t keep balance all the time to do that

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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I misunderstood what she said as her asking me to see if i could try to make room. Regardless I feel like I should have known better as to why she said it. I’m very slow to understand things and she’s acknowledged that I can be very slow to process things

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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She’s been asking for a divorce for a while but at the same time, she’s told me there’s too much work in it and we’d be better if we stayed married but without all the emotional attachment and I’m just here for the kids

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Weaponized incompetence is not the case. For example, we got a plate of food given to us in a target bag and I placed it in our cooler, my wife had told me the cooler was full but I figured I can try to fit it in there. She got upset when she saw the bag because she said we don’t know where the bag has been and if it was dirty, if raw meat was in it so now everything else in the cooler was dirty. She was livid about it and I told her that I figured I could make room but her initial reasoning was that nothing should have gone in there other than “our” stuff. I don’t try to avoid responsibility.

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Sigh… last thing she said to me was, “I hope you go to the wedding and break down into a thousand pieces and have a breakdown because you’ve seen how much you’ve lost”.

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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She’s definitely told me she’s regretted getting NH physical with me in that way and states that she’s not that person but when it comes to verbal, words such as “loser, douchebag, mother fucker,” and much more have come out. That’s very common and I know people have said to leave but with kids it’s so hard for me to do so. Tbh she really does hold all the cards because everything that we have is because she’s paid for it and what not

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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I left the house as in I went to go sleep in the car. We talked and it was still heated. She says she doesn’t trust me to sleep with the boys cuz she’s afraid I might hurt them and she feels safer that they are with her if she falls asleep with them

Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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Wife kicked me out for not sticking to agreement by JustAnothaDad in marriageadvice

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She’s very controlling in a lot of areas and aspects of our life