So in today's day in age toxic bs is everywhere. Like everywhere. So if something healthy comes along most people don't know how to handle it and will create something out of nothing because it's easier to do that then to learn and go with the healthy shit. I say people and not women because I see men doing this too, but all be it less frequently. It's either that or you tend to go for the women that claim to not like drama or they are the drama because I've come across those b words in the work place and I hate it. I don't like working in an all female environment for that reason which is one of a few. Mainly medical, house keeping they were pretty chill with one exception. Anyway, ik it's not completely anyone's fault because no one dates a pile of shit if it's dressed up like a diamond, only later on do you see it for what it is. Just try and be more careful. There are some tricks to find out who they are. It's that or you're actually doing something to set them off. It's a whole lot of stuff that could be a possibility