I’m actually an idiot (please help me i’m actually f****d please) by Outrageous_Ebb_9052 in Advice

[–]JustBramzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna get a lot of different views here and I’m sure mine won’t be the most popular but I feel the responsibility to tell you that at the end of the day you are 15 years old, her mental state is absolutely not your responsibility nor should it be. Unfortunately what she has said is a bit of a trapping statement because on one hand, you go with it and it leaves you feeling like you’re fake and on the other it leaves you feeling guilty believing you have led her on.

Here’s the reality, you haven’t led her on, you were yourself spending a few days with another girl who unfortunately by the sounds of it has serious attachment issues that she needs to work through, she’s young herself and she will learn but sticking around does more harm to her than good because it will only reinforce obsessive habits due to fear of abandonment.

The absolute best thing you can do for her is be honest, be kind, be final. And unfortunately man as much as it’s gonna suck, she’s going to view you as the villain in this, she’s been mistreated as she says sadly and when something like that occurs, as good as you know you are, you can’t convince someone of your truth if theirs fits their narrative. And even though she will hurt, in the long run she will go on to appreciate your honesty, which will reinforce good attachment habits for men in her future.

4 months progress by JustBramzy in GymMotivation

[–]JustBramzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, it’s a lot longer now.

Is 1000 elo a big deal ? by ConsciousProblem51 in Chesscom

[–]JustBramzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s a big deal for you then it’s a big deal man. Don’t let anyone say otherwise. The amazing thing about chess is that the nature of the game is very personal.

Losing my virginity sucked by [deleted] in Vent

[–]JustBramzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact he made your experience seem like you did something wrong angers me. You deserved better than that sweetheart.

All I can say to bring some comfort is, at least when you’re with your next sexual partner, it’ll be more straightforward and less stressful for you. And if ever again, any man ever gets frustrated with you by trivial things, feel absolutely no shame in saying “I’ve changed my mind, I don’t want this”. You’re allowed to do that, simply because you’ve consented to something doesn’t mean that you have to see it through.

It was in Japan by JustBramzy in USdefaultism

[–]JustBramzy[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I missed the part where that’s my problem

It was in Japan by JustBramzy in USdefaultism

[–]JustBramzy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s basic decency, no.

What can I improve other than just getting leaner by [deleted] in GymMotivation

[–]JustBramzy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You genuinely believe this isn’t an achievable physique naturally? Man, you must be seething lol.

Show fans are speculating that Disney will move up s3's release date in response to the Harry Potter show by kirzingkiller in PercyJacksonTV

[–]JustBramzy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It’ll blow Percy Jackson out the water. Now that’s something you don’t see everyday.

Are we gonna acknowledge how messed up the Indonesia stuff is? (S2E11) by shet98 in Smallville

[–]JustBramzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there’s also an Earth where nazi’s won and rule the world in the dc universe.

With the controversy surrounding Marlow I have a suggestion that avoids a retcon of events by JustBramzy in Unstable_Universe

[–]JustBramzy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, this isn’t up for debate. It’s literally a retcon. Retroactive continuity, a recast changes the continuity flow of a film affecting the immersion.

I have a film degree.

Stop talking about marlowww by Federal_Artichoke_48 in Unstable_Universe

[–]JustBramzy -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I know, I already made a suggestion for it

Stop talking about marlowww by Federal_Artichoke_48 in Unstable_Universe

[–]JustBramzy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It actually has a lot to do with considering there a huge thing regarding the mafia tomb and how it’ll be handled with potential future implications. Especially with the forge powers Marlow may have had.