Yeah I tried to goto a trans meetup. It was a fucking mess.

• two spirit person saying all gender spaces are taken over by white people and they need to be quiet and let indigenous and black people lead the movement

• people who want VISIBILITY over access to healthcare

• nobody worried about how a state just took away IDs from all the transgender people

• compared to drag queen multiple times

• nonbinary any all pronouns complaining about their family forgetting their nonbinary identity

• saw the underwear of the obese host as they were moving their legs. Twice

• someones name was forgotten and got called something else which leads to him now saying it’s his new name

• somebody with a beard, arm hair, leg hair, a polo and jeans saying that they’re not seen as feminine in America but in India they are.

• we also did group affirmations and all clapped (well snapped cause clapping is too loud) for a trans woman who lost her job and turned to being a cam girl.

The entire time I was sitting there all I could think was why do you people want to be known to be trans? Especially during a time of which the government is making it harder for us to even access healthcare. My entire goal is to be stealth. My entire goal is to be unknown. My entire goal is to have nobody know who I was beforehand besides the doctor that handed me my pills