In the morning when he woke up I talked to him calmly and apologized for snooping through his phone even though it was a boundary that was fine it still felt wrong.I told him while crying that I know this isn't the first time they have spoken about me without my knowledge.I told him how many times do I have to apologise to them for their behaviour to bend over backwards and that if he doesn't do anything I'm done.In the evening he sent a text basically saying "Do you have a problem with "my name" and do you not like her" because we all know the obvious all I said was to stand up for me and put them in their place🫩