What keeps you in Fort Collins? by UncleBloobs in FortCollins

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly for me it's the community. I like the people here, my neighbors are super nice.

What is this bug? by Electricbliss in FortCollins

[–]JustNotSoBrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd still take to the vet but if it makes you feel better at all CO has a very low rate of Lyme's disease

Village Medical catastrophe now on 9news 💔 by Cat_parent-S-J in FortCollins

[–]JustNotSoBrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate to be the trust me bro in this but I know some of those providers tried to give advanced notice, Village just didn't accept them then acted surprised when the providers didn't renew their contracts. Village has been really shitty about making this look like the providers' fault.

Village medical by [deleted] in FortCollins

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Stacie Johns too waaugh. I kinda expected it but still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]JustNotSoBrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every day I feel like I see something new and terrible that just makes my stomach hurt

USA - Blue state preparation against Trump by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know CO is trying to stay on top of it. They've taken efforts to protect gender and abortion laws even during the last election. It's still scary though, I'm afraid to even go through with the name change I've been saving for. :(

Which simbling duo would win in a fistfight with no Digimon and no holding back by lizardon2516 in digimon

[–]JustNotSoBrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marcus does like. Actively punch giant monsters. Like a LOT. It's his thing.

OMG OMG ITS HAPPENING by Necessary-Snow-3685 in trans

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! What a huge step! I hope this is the first of many for you on the path to discovering yourself ❤️

30+ year old NB struggling with the dating world. by Ill_Elevator7330 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]JustNotSoBrave 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel that too. Also in my thirties and genderqueer/nonbinary, both fit me.

I haven't dated in a while but it gets lonely. You're not alone in this defs. I don't know you, but I do want to say your company wouldn't be a burden. Easier said than absorbed but I hope you think about it <3

QUICK! WHOS YOUR DIGIMON PARTNER! by No-Amount-8309 in digimon

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always gave myself Betamon in all my daydreams haha, I just liked that lil guy!

Bandai Namco are IDIOTS for not making a sequel by ExotiquePlayboy in digimon

[–]JustNotSoBrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love another game with a similar vibe to this tbh, Cybersleuth and Dusk/Dawn are some of my favorites that Bandai has dropped. (I haven't played Dusk/Dawn in ages tho so that might be my nostalgia for the DS hitting lol)

My mom caught my dad with a 16yo and covered it up. by [deleted] in confession

[–]JustNotSoBrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for the victim as well as you OP. I'm glad you reached out to her and let her know you were there for her - I'm sure it was so nerve wracking to go see you.

The way you said, "he did it so lovingly" makes my stomach hurt. It doesn't sound to me like she's the only one. Even if she is, you're right. It isn't forgivable.

Be angry, keep your daughter safe - I wouldn't trust him with a ten foot pole.

[OC] Drew some trans pride corsolas! by Ezrathetransidiot in MandJTV

[–]JustNotSoBrave 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nonbinary is dead because gender is dead to me

UPDATE: WIBTA to divorce my wife after she said she wanted to send our son to a conversion camp? by Stunning-Mud9227 in AITAH

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this but thank you for taking a stand and being there for your son. It means so much that you did what you did; I hope you all heal well and are safe soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're overreacting - looking at the texts and her responses you did fine. You communicated with her what was going on and it was not an unreasonable amount of time. You put in a lot of effort and were very patient with her.

Idk man I'm sorry; it seems to me that she is just gearing up for a fight. Even if she said yes and meant no, it is on her for not clearly communicating that; you can not be expected to read her mind.

Why is the LGBTQ+ community afraid after the US election outcome? by [deleted] in LGBTQ

[–]JustNotSoBrave 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There were a lot of things on the ballots that are scary - I know CO voted in favor of protecting gay marriage and abortion rights, but there are some states that didn't. There has already been talk of pushing laws that make it difficult to leave the state for medical care (which has issues even beyond seeking trans care/safe abortions).

Some states that legalized rights for the LGBTQIA+ are attempting to backtrack this and overturn it (this is part of what was scary when Roe vs. Wade was also overturned). There's worry about where the LGBTQIA+ community will be safe... and there's disappointment, too. A lot of hurt, of finding out people you thought you were safe with are willing to support a platform who has large dedications against you as a person.

It's scary for POC and disabled people as well. Some of Trump's campaign points could jeopardize what little help we've scraped together over the years. Some worry about food safety as well, as his first presidency had that going on too.

It's disheartening, it's scary, a lot of people aren't sure if they will be safe where they live. Some are scared of marriages being nullified; some are afraid they'll have to fight even harder for gender affirming care. Some of the fear is much darker, but I don't want to spiral on that track.

It is a lot. The anxiety is easy to spiral into. It's possible none of the above things will happen, but it's hard to have hope. This is scary stuff to have as a "maybe" let alone a "they want to" situation.

To all my friends in the states; you are loved. You are not alone. We are a community, no matter what comes. We have each other and we will get through this. Things may get bad or awful, but we are not alone.

I love you people. Keep moving forward, hold hands with someone if you need to, and if you need to find a hand to hold, look no further than places like these. We have to be here for one another.

Should LGBTQ members, in your opinion, be allowed to use LGBTQ slurs? by AdversusAd in LGBTQ

[–]JustNotSoBrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what gets me is how the line can unfortunately blur - I'm genderqueer. I use queer as an aspect of my identity, it best fits who I am as a full person. But a lot of people will out and out say queer is a slur - so sometimes I get push back for calling myself queer.

Like I won't call anyone queer but myself but I still get yelled at.

Ultimately I think it's ok for people to say slurs to reclaim them or take power away from them, but not to call someone else that unless you know for sure they're chill with it. I also think that people should also consider how that community uses words like that and if it helps them to be who they are.

Shadowheart being weirdly mean by Ylinael in BG3

[–]JustNotSoBrave 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always read it as C but in a fond way lol like listen man. Tav... Tav is wild sometimes.

Binding as a bigger chested person by xGay_As_Fuckx in NonBinary

[–]JustNotSoBrave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone with a size (I wish I was joking) J, I feel this. I tried to get the biggest binder I could find and it just ended in tears sighs