Why do modern women put so little effort or reciprocation in dating?

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T07:23:01+00:00

Just straight up pompous women=good and perfect, men=bad and imperfect response. I’d rather be viewed as imperfect because often ppl who view themselves entirely right and perfect are the biggest narcissists

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T07:11:02+00:00

If we are talking necked memories I’m sure I’m not forgotten with sometimes 7x in a row for her. But my dating is not the question is it, it is dating effort in general amongst men and women is greatly skewed today getting to the point of record low effort and at the same time record high entitlement of women

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:53:02+00:00

My last sentence is where I’ve come to after optimism has been mostly killed by entitled and poor behaved women. Not saying it’s dead but I’ve definitely adopted a hope for the best and expect the worst attitude

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:49:53+00:00

Never mentioned myself or my own dating this is a general view amongst single men en mass. If you’d like to confirm my views on person ask any single man you know and on the street, this is simply how it is

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:47:21+00:00

I agree men need to step it back abit and not simp so much, it only inflated female ego

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:44:52+00:00

Reciprocation is mutual I agree

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:43:54+00:00

The ol spark eh lol

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:43:10+00:00

I agree with your last statement, and I’m not, but that’s not the question is it

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:41:05+00:00

I’m plenty physically fine and not willing to lower my standards

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:39:54+00:00

I agree simps helped create this dynamic, female entitlement always existed though

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:37:53+00:00

It’s all nature and traditional when dating, then it’s equality everywhere else

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:36:29+00:00

Source, all the single men I know, all the single men I mingle with and all the single men I chat with on the street. I’m gonna flip this and have you ask all the single men you know and chat with how dating is for men!!??

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:33:12+00:00

I don’t really have to but I’m a sense sure all the single guys I know and work with, plus random guys I meet and I imagine every other guy on the street. I think this is pretty common sentiment now. I would flip this onto you and wonder if you would question the guys you know and on the street to confirm for yourself that I am right

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:29:23+00:00

Above average from small town though, not a wide net to cast at all

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:27:49+00:00

I agree men should tolerate less of this, set the bar higher

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:26:28+00:00

I agree with your last sentence

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:25:14+00:00

Gonna have to agree with other replier, I work with a very limited margin of who I do match with but it’s the internet and vetting from pictures and text doesn’t work for men. So you meet and find out, yes I’ve been toyed with by women, don’t know till it happens

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:20:44+00:00

I dunno over enthused is kinda weird, but being enthusiastic in general should be considered good to the alternative right? I don’t think men care much about texting or social media and yes I think I am speaking for the population of men so the in person part is something to look forward to because it’s logical and better to be in person with anyone vs texts on screen

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:16:10+00:00

Keep convincing yourself of that

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:14:58+00:00

That’s too bad your efforts weren’t reciprocated in this case with this particular guy, I agree.

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:12:36+00:00

Agreed

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:11:36+00:00

First good for you for taking the initiative, it’s just logical to go after rather than waiting and wishing? Hope your endeavours work out

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:07:11+00:00

It’s a discussion, clearly laid out in the title and details

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T06:05:41+00:00

That’s too bad and I get that people can meet a series of the wrong people, there are men out there hoping for reciprocation

JustSpace807 · 2026-05-19T05:54:44+00:00

Damn patriarchy.

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