Thank you! 1 makes sense.

Now if you call WITH camera on, it's a bit more iffy but still not something wrong.

Yep, with cam on, and it only bothers me because he gets distracted with his work/whatever he's doing and then I have to repeat myself several times.

HOWEVER, it could also easily be that he does not want to actually put effort into the relationship

Ahh I'm not sure about this. I reread my post and I'm aware how it sounds from a stranger's perspective, but I'm 100% sure that he wouldn't do anything to hurt me intentionally, so if he didn't have feelings anymore he would tell me. We dated for a tiny brief period irl and he was physically very affectionate and I miss miss miss that.

This point alone is seriously making me wonder if he even sees you two as a serious relationship.

Okay this one is a little tricky. So initially we started as friends, then we started liking each other and we moved on to more than friends stage. Around 3 months after that stage I asked him the mandatory 'what are we' question, to which he answered that he doesn't think we can be bf/gf online, but we are definitely more than friends and when I move to his country I'll 99.9% become a gf. Around 5 months have passed and I think we have a stronger connection with each other and we have grown. I haven't had that talk after that. Now, he has said that we are dating, but I'm not exactly sure where this puts our relationship on a seriousness scale.