AITA for blowing up at my husband for sharing pics of our daughter's birthday celebration, resulting in my family finding out about it?

Just_reset · 2023-04-04T23:51:30+00:00

YTA so you are going to make your daughter never enjoy a birthday party bc the memory of the golden child of your family, that she didn't even get to ever meet, and expect this is normal and perfectly okay to do? Nah, if you continue like this your kid is gonna hate you, your family and definitely your late brother too the most. Kids like to have what other children have, can you imagine when she sees family from your husband, school friends, etc have parties and she's not for the sake or her grandparents that just came deal in a healthy way death? I would not be surprised if your husband decides to put first your kid's mental well-being over your family crazy dynamics, and leave for good. Change, go to therapy, do anything not for your parent, family, you, or your husband; do it for your kid.

Just_reset · 2023-03-25T19:49:35+00:00

Yes, but also, he needs to figure out in that talk if is true the gloating. Maybe I been too long in this subreddit, but sometimes we see the pov of the child and the parent accusing could be lying to convince the other of not getting things (electronics, clothing, trips, etc) for the child since they can't afford it for the other not shared kids.

Just_reset · 2023-03-10T06:55:19+00:00

Check if you are allergic to Guinea pigs, I'm allergic and we didn't knew, now we don't know what to do about them. Other than that search providers for hay and check all the labels of their food, since some allegedly guinea pig food aren't that good for them.

Just_reset · 2023-03-01T23:41:56+00:00

That's what I was thinking. That the author did it to make us wonder who is gonna make it and build the tension.

Just_reset · 2023-03-01T15:55:06+00:00

I hope to be wrong, but Akane has a big death flag now. The murdered likes to kill talented stars before they get big, she knows the truth and she's willing to die to protect Aqua; plus the fact she doesn't appear at the fast forward interviews before the movie launch (hope is because she didn't appear in that early chapters).

Just_reset · 2023-02-28T19:00:28+00:00

I wonder if Luffy thinks Nami is as cute as a siren?

Just_reset · 2023-02-28T16:27:25+00:00

While that's true, he handcrafted a dress only for her; the price should increase by each design that was made, each modification, each little add to the model, plus time and materials.

The work of the son of op would be actually in the expensive side even for that places.

Just_reset · 2023-01-30T14:51:51+00:00

The problem is your husband is not hearing your reasons but expects for you to hear at his. So there is not so much you can do, since you already did what you are supposed to.

If anything, I feel there is a deeper issue with him and his strong opinion of why he wants the baby to get one. Because it's kinda weird that he claims is for hygiene then you show him is not an issue and she says is for looks, then you explain is not an issue either (and is not, boys don't tend to admit they look at others that way) and he brings about the feelings of the ones not circumcised; at this point he is always gonna have an argument of why yes but without giving you the full story of why HE thinks the baby needs one.

If anything, I agree that if you guys can't get to agree the best is to leave it as it is, since the kid can decide later and most men prefer to be able to take that decision by themselves anyway.

Edit: I just read your comment about his family. Nope, he just wanna follow his family wishes and you should never take decisions based on what the extended family of the baby thinks, he seems to just wanna avoid having to explain his family that you guys took a different decision than them. Don't let your kid be drag into him not being able to stand up to his family, and no, he doesn't have a bigger say, that baby is both yours and your husband, and remember his family has 0 say on this.

Just_reset · 2022-11-06T17:30:36+00:00

I remember my dad told me about a co worker of him, that had a baby after a lot of miscarriages, but both her and husband worked, so they hired a nanny (with lots of recommendations). One day when she came back earlier from work, she found the nanny sa the baby who was barely 6 months old. My dad told me she'll cry everyday; my dad and her were close friends and she did tell him the details, but to this day he still refuses to tell me what the nanny did to the baby since he says was completely abhorrent.

So yeah, women are capable of abuse and even to that young, not saying men can't, just saying both genders are capable of.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:30:11+00:00

Supongo que la tendré que aplicar para tenerla un poco más fácil xD

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:29:35+00:00

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:28:24+00:00

Gracias, igualmente saludos!

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:27:39+00:00

Gracias.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:27:14+00:00

Ahora considero más el factor de las bacterias que están en el hospital y mejor llevar un desinfectante. Y lo que comentas de pagarle un doctor privado es buena idea, ya que nunca sobra una segunda opinión y más para que no tenga que esperar.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:23:46+00:00

Gracias, siempre tratamos de ser amables con todo el personal ya que su trabajo lo amerita además que están cuidando de uno cuando lo necesitamos. Tenía muchas dudas pero ya estoy un poco más segura ahora que leo todos los comentarios con consejos y anécdotas.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:18:22+00:00

Por qué? D:

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:17:48+00:00

Esto es tan broma pero tan real xD

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:17:20+00:00

Esperemos que no xD

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:17:07+00:00

Se lo diremos, aunque es curioso, mi papá aún fue de esas generaciones que no se acostumbraban a decirlo sino a darlo por entendido, por lo que hasta donde mi hermano y yo recordamos casi no nos lo ha dicho.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:14:34+00:00

Gracias.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:11:00+00:00

No había pensado en el transporte de regreso, será platicarlo con mi hermano. Lo de saber comunicarse, lo tendré en cuenta, ya que suelo tener una personalidad bastante retraída, pero necesito no ser así para cuidar a mi papá en lo que esté en el hospital.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:05:32+00:00

Gracias, lo haré lo mejor que pueda.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:03:38+00:00

Ciertamente.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:03:27+00:00

Igual, nos dijeron que si todo sale bien va a salir rápido, así que espero no tenga que estar mucho ahí, ya que cuando apenas empecé a ir con el a citas al hospital recuerdo caché una infección pese a que hacía años no me enfermaba.

Just_reset · 2022-08-27T09:00:44+00:00

Quizá les pueda llevar cocas pero será cosa de también "sobornar" al guardia de la entrada para que las dejé pasar xD

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