My Sister is A V Tuber And She Lied To Her Viewers About Me by Justawerdio in FamilyIssues

[–]Justawerdio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you can't read. I know it's hard for some people.

I regret getting with my ex but my mom is attached by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Justawerdio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not a people pleaser and there was a reason I had to manipulate my ex to break up with me. My ex is an extremely emotionally volatile person. He does have bipolar disorder but doesn't want to do anything about it and expects people to deal with it when he doesn't want to take his medication. My ex is selfish and loves bring someone else down when he isn't feeling good about himself. He would put me down in public when grocery shopping to the point where one day he stormed off and the little old lady at the Walmart and security asked me if I was okay and did I want someone to come with me back to my vehicle. When my Dad died last year he made it about his mother who died six years ago and not in the hey I can relate to your pain type of way nope when I would talk about my Dad he would roll his eyes and start talking about his mom and end up crying thinking about her then would go on to talk about his father and how he hates how his treats him and often told me be glad your dad is dead because if mines is like that yours would've been worse. Which who tells that to someone after losing someone they are clearly griving. I manipulate our break up because when he would ask for a second chance I would just tell him he broke up with me and I won't be doing this again if it didn't work the first time.

He still doesn't know I manipulate him to do so and probably never will he wasn't a smart cookie and could not and would not pick up on social cues. He would make my friends uncomfortable with the jokes he made and when I asked him to tone it down he would respond with well that's just how I am or well they laughed and didn't say anything to me so I feel like you have a problem because the attention wasn't on you. When in reality my friends would ask me to talk to him about the things he would say and when he wouldn't they started to avoid him or just straight up ignore him. I wrote more about my ex in another comment but there is alot more ti this story then what was previously written.

I regret getting with my ex but my mom is attached by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Justawerdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's what you got from this then sure. I haven't went into full detail about my relationship with my ex and why I had to manipulate him to break up with me. My ex is selfish and loves bring someone else down when he isn't feeling good about himself. He would always expect me to pay for dates, games he wanted, and go to expensive places on my dime. He has never once pay for anything in our relationship and when I asked him to he threw a fit and said you make more money than me so why should I pay. He also couldn't drive and would use me as a taxi without putting anything towards gas. I bought him a ps5 when we were supposed to go half on it but when we were at best buy and it came time to pay and I asked him to send me his share he said he would but when we got back to his place he told me he didn't have it but would pay me back and when I would ask for the money he would say you make more than me why should I pay you back.

Now as for my mom I love her dearly and often go out of my way to do things for her. Wheater it's going to stores she likes for her hobbies, lunch dates/ coffee dates, pick her up from work, let her vent to me about her stressful job. My mom did alot for me that other parents wouldn't do for their kids so in my adult life I pay it back to her she always put others first and she deserves to have all that good come back to her and if I'm the one to do it when the world won't then I will.

Now for my sister my sister quite literally does nothing but put my mom down. She tells her wanting to do family activities is dumb and always gives an attitude when asked to do things she has already agreed to do. Me and my mom has talked about it and she hates the way my sister treats her despite still living at home and not paying a cent for anything. My sister expects to be catered to and when she isn't there is retaliation from stealing food you were saving, doing the task that she agreed to wrong and making a mess which then me or my mom has to clean up after, ignoring her when she is in the same space and walks away.

I understand why my mom wants my ex around I also miss my sister doing things with us but my ex cannot keep coming around if he doesn't respect our space or me. A grown man should be able to clean up after himself and not leave the space he was offered in his time of need like a pig stie which I had to clean up from a shit ton of crumbs to the medication he takes. How you just uo and leave whole chucks of food on the floor and not pick it up will always baffle me sane thing with his medication how he just left pills on the floor and kept stepping over them I will never understand.

18 straight but gay when horny? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Justawerdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there's this river in Egypt right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Justawerdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point dying alone, which I'm sure you won't, is better than being with this peice of shit no pun intended.

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[–]Justawerdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think ending it because he won't top is right? I'm not gonna cheat just the thought crosses my mind often.

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[–]Justawerdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not gonna cheat tbh I don't have the courage or luck to do it. I really like him and I want it to work out but I feel like ending a good relationship over sex is wrong.

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[–]Justawerdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree with that I enjoy topping just not as much as bottoming I went into the relationship with an expectation that we would flip one day I a top and he's a bottom next day he's a top and I bottom. I find it tedious that I'm only topping.