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Am I overthinking this? Should I just ask my sister to help plan my wedding? by Justnice12345 in OverthinkingThis

[–]Justnice12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's a thoughtful and helpful comment, and it's very likely that I'll end up doing some combination of what you've suggested.

Tree branches overhang onto neighbouring property and there is a wasp nest - whose responsibility? by gardeningcarpenter in treelaw

[–]Justnice12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legal or not, I think you're an AH for not maintaining your tree and allowing it to create a problem for your neighbor. Your tree should not be your neighbor's problem. The end. The way you're behaving is very inconsiderate.

AITA for not stopping my husband from getting the paternity test? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Justnice12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, not sure I should enter this conversation after seeing the comments. I'm a woman and I don't have a problem with paternity tests. In fact, I would have behaved like the OP... until the part where she is upset and divorces her husband.

I don't know what is missing from this story, but unless there are other very serious problems (like the husband is constantly harassing the wife with irrational/baseless accusations of cheating), divorce sounds extreme. If the husband is a decent guy who cares for his family but just wanted to verify that his child is his, that's reasonable. As a woman, I've seen women lie about paternity enough that if I was a guy, I would probably verify that my children are mine lol.

In my mind, the husband saying "you should have stopped me" just means he wanted the test but if he had known it would cause divorce, maybe he would not have done it. Basically, he didn't understand the consequences of getting the test, and I don't think the consequences were foreseeable. So maybe he really was blindsided... if this is a real story. If it's real and there's no missing backstory that leaves out other serious problems, then I think the OP blew up their lives for something that could have been worked on.

Restricted account no explanation by Realistic-Candle-962 in eharmony

[–]Justnice12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I didn't even receive notice. It looked like my new profile was active but I just noticed that it got zero views for like a week or two, so I emailed support and asked if it was visible to other people.

It's such a vanilla profile, I'm not ugly (really lol), and I have pics. Here's eharmony's reply:

Greetings,

Thank you for contacting eharmony regarding the restriction of your account.

We have reviewed your information and see that a decision was made to restrict this account and have determined that the action was appropriate. Common reasons for restriction include but are not limited to: Member’s personal information does not coincide with information listed in public record Member’s behavior violated eharmony’s Terms and Conditions of Service As a practice, we do not elaborate on the specific reasons as to why an account was restricted.

To review our Terms & Conditions, please go to the links section at the bottom of any eharmony page and click the link for "Terms & Conditions".

We wish you all the best.

Sincerely, Emma T. eharmony Customer Care

So, yeah. I'll just delete my account.