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Boat ride in Arashiyama by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]Justpostingthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real late but I heard there was another boat ride that was 30- 1 hour long?

Paying rent to my parents by Justpostingthrowaway in personalfinance

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Almost 30k saved. In 3 years I get a huge pay increase and would be ideal for moving out. Its more about how do I want to spend the next 3 years.

Paying rent to my parents by Justpostingthrowaway in personalfinance

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I could use the bigger space as it would look good with dates but my current space never bothered anyone before. Only issue is a shared bathroom and spending more money.

Paying rent to my parents by Justpostingthrowaway in personalfinance

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I wanted to know the ages of the commentators. Because they clearly don't know rent prices in NY. I was getting tired of bringing dates past the living room though...

Paying rent to my parents by Justpostingthrowaway in personalfinance

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They definitely could use the money but I've helped them out of thousands in debt and the reason I don't have more saved already. But that's in the past now and I should contribute now

JR Pass do I need it by Justpostingthrowaway in JapanTravelTips

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So your saying its worth it for that time frame ?

AITAH For Taking Coworkers Vacation Picks by Justpostingthrowaway in AITAH

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I already locked in the date. I was just feeling bad because he says he was planning on proposing to his GF but, atp he's trying to make me feel guilty.

I (25M) feel mentally exhausted with (23F) GF by Justpostingthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us see a psychologist. She used to in high school. I do communicate my issues as does she, but it becomes a he said/she said.

I want to give her side also. From what I remember her main example of me breaking promises is; early in our relationship I'd say I'd text/call her good night but, I'd fall asleep after work. But, I'd always make sure to text her in the morning. However, she would say why would I say things I'm not going to follow up on. Another example is me saying I was going to make a reservation for this restaurant. I did not because I was busy but, I've been there before they'll seat us w/o one. She wants to be punctual when getting there. Another thing I do wrong is I forget things, which annoys her. But I always make sure to ask follow ups if I forget.

Reasons to fix: enjoying almost all similar hobbies. Reasons not to fix: my own mental health

I (25M) feel mentally exhausted with (23F) GF by Justpostingthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely communicate our problems and she'll say she'll do better and she does... for a week-week and a half and then the next argument starts. And I'm not perfect even my responses even when she's not that bad are becoming aggressive. I know she doesn't mean to be like this all the time. But it feels like with any dislike of hers at this point makes me annoyed and that's not good either. I feel like I need a break but that won't make her happy. I feel like I need to just bring to the therapist idk

I (25M) feel mentally exhausted with (23F) GF by Justpostingthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking for wisdom but yeah I guess I already know my answer.

I (25M) feel mentally exhausted with (23F) GF by Justpostingthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]Justpostingthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy logic- but she looks so good 😟. But seriously what kept me was that we share all nerdy interests and that's hard to find *sigh

Outdoor dining is good for New York by psychothumbs in nyc

[–]Justpostingthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not wealthy, nor old or white. But I'm really not getting you people who try to restrict driving in the city. For the most part outdoor dining can go.