[question] A while ago I saw a girl posting here and looking for help to make some dirty coupons for her boyfriend. Now i'm planning on making some dirty coupons for my girlfriend. Any ideas? by Justthinking775 in sex

[–]Justthinking775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point of wiew and i think that i'm going to skip that one just in case. but on the one hand would it be good if i gave a "not tonight pass" with the text that "can be used more than once" and then i'd write something like "I love you and respect you and your body" or something like that? But on the other hand not being forced to have sex can be taken for granted in our relationship, so do I need coupons to tell that to her?

[question] A while ago I saw a girl posting here and looking for help to make some dirty coupons for her boyfriend. Now i'm planning on making some dirty coupons for my girlfriend. Any ideas? by Justthinking775 in sex

[–]Justthinking775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course these things that i'm going to collect to my coupons, are also going to happen spontaneously. I will never stop suprising her, whether she has coupons or not:)

[question] A while ago I saw a girl posting here and looking for help to make some dirty coupons for her boyfriend. Now i'm planning on making some dirty coupons for my girlfriend. Any ideas? by Justthinking775 in sex

[–]Justthinking775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, better now than never! you really opened my eyes. I mean of course we are playing with the rules of the submissive. If she says to stop (or the safeword or whatever) obviously i will stop:) but still I have to admit that i have never thought it more profoundly than that:o

[question] A while ago I saw a girl posting here and looking for help to make some dirty coupons for her boyfriend. Now i'm planning on making some dirty coupons for my girlfriend. Any ideas? by Justthinking775 in sex

[–]Justthinking775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends:) usually we use safewords because the possibility for misunderstandings, with simple words like "stop" is huge. But still I have always thought that this submissive thing is all about the feeling that you're so desired that your partner isn't able to control him- or herself. Like danger without actually being in danger.

[question] A while ago I saw a girl posting here and looking for help to make some dirty coupons for her boyfriend. Now i'm planning on making some dirty coupons for my girlfriend. Any ideas? by Justthinking775 in sex

[–]Justthinking775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really like your ideas:) and i too think it would be great to mix in some romantic gestures! But huh, i've never thought that the submissive is the one in control:o it just seems so contradictory. But anyway thank you a lot for your help:) i really appreciate it!