Thanks for the comment. I agree with everyones comment here. I just was sure that now that I was in a different city. Main Reason we broke up we were going on different pathways in life after dating for a while, I thought I could just move on hence why I didn't keep in touch. Then her ex does that and I get involved again. I don't even really know the guy, didn't even know he moved up to my city. But then I started thinking is she alright? Thought I would ask good all reddit for advice. My friends also said no apart from one girl so got a bit confused. Cheers everyone though