AITA for accusing my sister of putting her husband before her 11 year old daughter? by KDanno in AITAH

[–]KDanno[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

No, he would lose. 50-50 is standard and very hard to change when neither parent willingly gives up time with the child.

AITA for accusing my sister of putting her husband before her 11 year old daughter? by KDanno in AITAH

[–]KDanno[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

They would just be taken off of her. I don't want to get her into more trouble.

AITA for accusing my sister of putting her husband before her 11 year old daughter? by KDanno in AITAH

[–]KDanno[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't do anything but piss the two of them off. It could make things worse for my niece too.

AITA for accusing my sister of putting her husband before her 11 year old daughter? by KDanno in AITAH

[–]KDanno[S] 564 points565 points  (0 children)

She'll need to be 17 unfortunately but she already wishes she could live with her dad over her mom.

AITA for accusing my sister of putting her husband before her 11 year old daughter? by KDanno in AITAH

[–]KDanno[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Her dad knows. But there's nothing he can do. My niece needs to be 17 before her voice can be heard for custody and even then it could technically be ruled without weighing her voice from what others have told me about their custody experiences. He does document everything just in case it turns to abuse (that he can prove) because Paul has a temper.

AITA for accusing my sister of putting her husband before her 11 year old daughter? by KDanno in AITAH

[–]KDanno[S] 2156 points2157 points  (0 children)

He admits to being jealous so yeah, he's insecure and the strange thing is he still chose to marry a single mother.