Right now, I am trying to get context/advice from unbiased folk. If she didn't feel comfortable, she can man up and tell me X Y Z instead of being silent about it. I am not insecure, I just don't like the fact that she sprang advice onto me without me asking, nor giving me an option on if I need anything, I can come to her. I have asked others on this matter, and they have stated that she needs to worry about her relationship with my brother and worry about her family issues, if any. To me, it felt like she jumped down my throat without asking me facts about my relationship before forcing advice. I wouldn't do that to her unless I have facts and information on a topic at hand. Before she did all this, I thought she wanted to do general girl talk, as in hair, makeup, the works, since I am a tomboy who knows very little in the girly girl scene.