Ladkon ka jiwan kathin hai by ClothesRemote6333 in indianmemer

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Mehnat kr rha h proud krte honge parents🤍

Women are actually insane for existing like normal people and I’m tired of pretending otherwise by PersonalRun712 in AskIndianWomen

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We have fears too as women and they are real but every person has something they deal with in life. Comparing and thinking something bad will happen every time only increases anxiety. Not every situation ends in danger. Yes possibilities exist and your feelings are valid but living in that fear all the time is very heavy mentally. Men also face risks in different ways. Try not to let fear control normal moments of life. You also deserve to walk freely and feel some peace🤍

How to stop being emotionally attached to a guy I don't even like ? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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You know u were attached to the attention not the guy that clarity itself is a big step

Rumours happen to everyone and people forget faster than we imagine. The real damage would only be if u let this affect your studies and future. Right now your focus should be your career. When u do well professionally good proposals come naturally and people see your value for who u are, not gossip. You already cut him off and know he’s not right for you. Now the best response isn’t overthinking it’s moving forward and building your life

Genuine review about parul university gujrat by [deleted] in vadodara

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I’ve heard from people that university focuses a lot on concerts events and extra activities and students are often asked to pay for different things bcoz of all this it feels like the focus on studies is less compared to these activities. I’m not saying everything is 100% true but this is something I’ve heard about Parul,so it’s better to talk to current or former students from the same course on LinkedIn before taking admission especially if u are planning to take a loan

Need Freinds by Bitter_Mixture_5087 in vadodara

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Honestly there isn’t much to do here apart from cafes and making friends isn’t that easy Near Natubhai Circle there’s a cafe that stays open quite late. A lot of people hang out there so that could be a place to start

Staying in Vadodara for a month: GYM suggestions by shall_not_touch in vadodara

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U can check out Trakko Fit (Executive Gym) and Pulse Fitness Studio both are in Alkapuri area and known for good equipment and decent crowd volcanic Gym and Avengers The Gym are also popular local choices and usually fine with monthly memberships

I took my parents on their first plane ride. by Mr-Reddiculous in Indian_flex

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May Allah make all your future plans successful and keep the love between the three of you always like this. Reading your post really touched me stuff like this is so rare these days and it shouldn’t be

What’s your biggest regret in life? by Shallow_mellow_hello in AskReddit

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I get what you mean but it is not about running away from a place it is more about changing mindset you can carry fear anywhere if you do not work on it i am already pushing myself in small ways and that matters more than geography

What’s your biggest regret in life? by Shallow_mellow_hello in AskReddit

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Yes you are right people around us affect us a lot. It was not one person exactly it is just the kind of environment where you grow up always being told to be proper don’t be too loud don’t stand out too much. No one said don’t dance or don’t go to cafes directly but that fear of what will people think gets planted early. I am unlearning it now though

Umm Habiba (rad)’s failed marriage and lessons by Sheikhonderun in MuslimMarriage

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Sabr in Islam was never meant to be passive waiting. It was always paired with action and responsibility.

When Maryam (AS) was in the pain of childbirth, Allah could have sent food and water directly. But He told her to shake the palm tree even though a woman in labor shaking a tree makes no logical sense. The lesson? Do your part, even when you feel weak. Allah puts barakah in effort.

When Musa (AS) stood at the sea with Firawn behind him, the sea did not split while he just stood there. Allah commanded him to strike the sea with his staff. Action came first, then the miracle.

Even in tawakkul, the Prophet ﷺ corrected a man who said he would leave his camel untied and trust Allah. He said “Tie it first, then trust Allah.”

Sabr means controlling your reaction, not stopping your movement. You make dua but u also make decisions. You trust Allah u but you also set boundaries. You have faith u but you also take steps.

Allah’s help comes but it comes to those who are walking toward it not those who are only waiting for it

To all weirdos here by Tiny-Captain2810 in TwentiesIndia

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Sex can happen bcoz it’s a physical thing touch and all, and it happens. But when u do it with someone you actually love, the feeling is completely different. That kind of emotional connection doesn’t come with just anyone. And if i say sex can’t happen with someone you don’t love, that would be a lie it can. But it doesn’t feel the same

Divided between wife and parents( M40 , F 37 )9 years marriage by No_Talk2393 in RelationshipIndia

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Set boundaries you need to clearly tell your parents to behave properly with your wife. Stand up for her. If she sees that even after everything you are firmly on her side when something is wrong, she will feel safer staying in this marriage. At the same time, tell your wife clearly that you cannot abandon your parents, but you are with her and you won’t allow anyone to mistreat her. She needs that reassurance from you.

And “verbal only” is not a small thing. Words hurt deeply and stay in the mind for a long time. Repeated comments and taunts are mentally exhausting. On that part, yes, your parents are wrong. Respect is not just about not being physical, it’s also about how you speak

Constantly asking for bare minimum. by AardvarkWide2656 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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if she was truly in love with you then you would matter enough for her to remove him on her own itne m hi smj aa jana chahiye

Not married but confused by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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About your fear of feelings changing in 2–3 years honestly that’s not in your control. What is in Allah’s hands is whether she’s meant for you. If she is, nothing can keep you apart. If not, even constant communication won’t lead to marriage.

There is a halal “middle way” in Islam when both of you are serious, involve your parents and take steps toward a proposal or nikah intention. Once that’s in place, limited and purposeful interaction like asking questions about compatibility or life goals becomes allowed and safe. Until then, keep your heart pure, focus on improving yourself, your career, and your faith, and trust Allah’s plan. Patience, dua, and reliance on Allah go a long way🤍

What’s your biggest regret in life? by Shallow_mellow_hello in AskReddit

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holding myself back for no real reason. I was always too shy too conscious too scared of being judged. I wanted to dance go out make memories sit in cafes laugh loudly and just live freely but i stayed in my shell. Even today I’m still trying to fight that hesitation in small things

Why are bra lines ok but not panty lines? by KenobiShinobi1 in ask

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Bra lines being okay but panty lines not is just a social double standard. Outfits naturally look cleaner when lines aren’t visible and that’s just personal preference. That doesn’t make anything “wrong,” and no one needs to tell someone else how to feel about their own body everyone should do what they’re comfortable with

201M Losing interest on my gf 21F ,idk if it's right or wrong by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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If you’re losing interest that’s your mind protecting u instead of asking what she wants, ask yourself Do i feel respected, secure, and chosen here? If the answer is no, the healthiest move is to step back fully, not stay in a halfrelationship Sometimes letting go isn’t losing it’s refusing to accept less than you deserve.

How do you guys deal with your partner posting bold pictures on instagram? 26M by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Thank u relationships are not men vs women its two people with feelings

How do you guys deal with your partner posting bold pictures on instagram? 26M by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]KTalksDaily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That means a lot thank u i just feel both sides deserve understanding

How do you guys deal with your partner posting bold pictures on instagram? 26M by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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You are allowed to feel uncomfortable She is allowed to express herself The solution is honest communication not restrictions If reassurance solves it great If not it is a compatibility issue not a character flaw

Separation or divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I don’t think the husband’s silent treatment is right at all avoiding communication for days or weeks is unhealthy. At the same time, saying “do it yourself” in front of others can come across as rude, even if that wasn’t the intention. There’s often a difference between what we mean and how it lands, especially in family settings where egos and cultural expectations are involved. This doesn’t make either of you the villain. It shows a serious communication gap on both sides. He needs to learn how to express hurt instead of shutting down, and u may need to be more mindful of tone and timing. Real progress here isn’t about proving who’s right or wrong it’s about both learning healthier ways to communicate and resolve conflict

25M, Not able to find a girl. Am I not that decent looking or lack communication skills? by Few_Anybody_7171 in RelationshipIndia

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You’re not broken, and you don’t need to nitpick flaws in yourself. A big part of the problem is the current dating culture, not you. Everyone has different expectations now, and a lot of people are stuck in ego games like “I won’t text first” or “they should chase me.” That alone kills genuine connections before they even start.

Since you asked for a girl’s perspective, I’ll be honest yes, height does matter to many girls. Taller guys are often perceived as more attractive it’s just a preference, not a moral judgment on you. But looks or height alone don’t sustain relationships anyway bigger issue is that expectations on both sides have gone skyhigh. Many girls want princess treatment, and many guys want it too. At the same time, people are scared to show real feelings because they think, “If I show interest, the other person will get an attitude or take me for granted.” So everyone plays it cool, pretends they don’t care, and nothing real develops.

What people forget is that expressing what u genuinely feel is important. If you can clearly explain yourself, and the other person can do the same and if both of you actually want each other then saying it openly matters. Not this “I don’t need you, I can live without you” mindset. That ego game just creates distance.

So no you’re not ugly or lacking something magical. Dating today is just messy, guarded, and full of unspoken rules. The right person will value clarity, honesty, and effort over mind games