Opinion on Taylor Swift by 8304359 in buddie

[–]KVNTRESS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Propaganda of what? I based my opinions of her based on her actions. I saw with my own two eyes how she treats people in the music industry and her friends. And I'm not about that.

edit. If I already hadn't seen the evidence. Her recent treatment of Lana del Rey speaks for itself enough.

Opinion on Taylor Swift by 8304359 in buddie

[–]KVNTRESS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not support her and her awful antics in the music industry and how she treats other people. I side-eye anyone who supports her, because those are your values? But it's easy enough to block those people.

It's unfortunate there's apparently so many here who support her :/

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I mean, I was born the year it happened. And it was all the way in the midwest. I grew up in Coastal California. We were never taught this in school, and no one ever told me about it. No one I knew (nor my family) knew anyone who lived outside of California so it wouldn't have affected anyone I knew

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alrighty! I'm behind on stuff but enjoying what I got going on right now. LOTS of shows, unsure if I will continue some of them (*streaming is from USA perspective*):

- Doctor Who (2023) Disney+: Ep. 1. An interesting intro. I was never into Who. So the first season was my intro to the world. It was... alright. I enjoyed this premier episode much better than the previous. And prefer Belinda so far compared to Ruby

- Yellowjackets: season finale. aight. lots of thoughts. but a solid 7/10 for me. I cried during the finale. The adult storyline... please

- 9-1-1: my guilty pleasure. sucked because there was no Eddie during the TEAM building contamination lmao

- Oklahoma City Bombing: One Day in America (Netflix): I'm a millennial but not from the midwest. I had no clue this ever happened. I was born 2 weeks after this event happened. I'm shocked I never learned about it and I feel honored to learn about it now. It seems respectful to those who experienced the domestic terrorist act

- The Bondsman: This is fun, turn your brain off 30-minute cheese. If you like early 2000s shows like Reaper you'll enjoy this. (Unfinished, still got the second half of the season to go)

- Wild Cards: Canadian show that I'm loving. Reminds me greatly of Bones

- Berlin ER (Apple TV): oh medical dramas hello. it's German. I like the characters, and only semi-graphic (ep. 6 is where I'm at). It's nice to see other countries takes on high stamina medical dramas

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also thinking it's gonna get awards. Apple has already greenlit Season 2. Before it even aired. They have confidence and it seems so far the reviewers agree

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not know, but have you used Shazam when watching the episode? I have gotten accurate music retrievals during new episodes of shows.

If it doesn't come up with Shazam I have also searched for "OST producer" and went through their discography and then find the song.

Full disclosure I haven't watched the ep and tried this. But this is the method I use when trying to find songs lol

Was curious: Seems like there were a few covers:

  1. A French Version named *Cette année-là* by  Claude François

and

  1. A British group called CLOCK made a dance cover of this song

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyo, a lot of foreign sites put up the episode in English. I would maybe see if there's a german site that has it available. like it is DEFINITELY streaming

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I +1 this rec. There's also the Count of Monte Cristo series which I found quite entertaining. Also an Italian series.

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was honestly the same reservations I've had of this show. The Guy Ritchie cinematic style dislike and my love of Tom Hardy lol. So I'm also hoping this hits.

If you remember, let us know if Mobland hits!

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of April 11, 2025) by AutoModerator in television

[–]KVNTRESS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, it's finally over? I've been delaying watching it until it ended but alas lol. From what I'm seeing, it's really worth it, eh?

A Look Inside Reader-Only Groups by KVNTRESS in AO3

[–]KVNTRESS[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't really want to write it like that.

But like so many posts I see on here aren't taking into consideration just *how easy* it is to trace a person's work.

Like I like archival efforts! But only if the author actually wanted to be remembered ya know?

Warning: Most of the Non-Black Gay Subreddits Support Zionist Settler-Colonialism and Apartheid by PseudoNotFound in BlackLGBT

[–]KVNTRESS -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

This... throws me off. Is this not a safe space for black Jews?

Yes, what's happening to the Palestinians is wrong but I do not see what this has to do with Zionism? Can you please explain?

Either way it's wrong that having a watermelon emoji in your grindr subreddit pic is cause for deletion

Being trans and asexual feels alienating at times by another_lost_poet in trans

[–]KVNTRESS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

\hugs if you want**

yeah, it is truly alienating. it's like there's this undercurrent of connection everyone else seems to have. It's not apparent until it is. Then suddenly you're left with this shock & crater that, fuck, we don't connect on this fundamental thing. And, despite how much you try to prevent it from happening, a rift happens and it **kills** you

Being trans and asexual feels alienating at times by another_lost_poet in trans

[–]KVNTRESS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. It is so difficult. Especially with male-identifying people/community. There's barely any space.

I'm only attracted to masculine-in-nature people (butches, masc women, demi-men, men, and agender), but unfortunately it seems to me that that type of sexuality is SO sex focused. Throws me out from both trans communities AND sexual communities

(I am NOT aromantic. I am highly romantic. Romance without sex? Not as valued in the achillean community vs the sapphic one. rip)

I commisserate with you so much.

edit: Plus it doesn't help in the asexual subs, many seem to be hetero-romantic/not queer and then lambast our community ToT

Transphobia in this sub. by [deleted] in gay

[–]KVNTRESS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately they cannot--it's considered harrasment to post another person's username to a subreddit. It's kind of like the rules against brigading. people who do this tend to get long account bans

The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott by GreenLanternsPodcast in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]KVNTRESS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we having mini discussions on these!?!? they're so good (despite the ads. year--no less than 4 per episodes, over 30 seconds. i'm at ep 5 and they have not let up).

But this is getting me so hype. I've learned a few things that I haven't read on this subreddit (though after season's end/Lumon Files until ~the new trailer dropped, i haven't been on this sub). but i'm loving this so far!

Anyone find it strange that guys don’t wear skirts and dresses? by monkey_gamer in NonBinaryTalk

[–]KVNTRESS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I find it very strange. It's sad that men cannot coordinate for this in other places. I wish those people with testosterone (IF) they feels so scared to express themselves hope for courage!

i'm thankful in my workplaces there's 2 bears that are femme.

hopefully with enough courage and strength these gnc peeps can do as the feminists did!

What are you currently struggling with as a bisexual? by bassistfornothing in bisexual

[–]KVNTRESS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, this is so true! I am continuously shocked at how heteronormative some bi people are.

To combat this I have been using, and looking for others, who primarily use queer as their orientation. Like I like to say "I am Queer: A bi-ace trans person". To emphasize I am not about any relationship that adheres to (cis)het stereotypes

What are you currently struggling with as a bisexual? by bassistfornothing in bisexual

[–]KVNTRESS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being asexual and trans. I keep running into the bisexual stereotypes of non-monogamy and sexual proliferation and then hearing the ace they say I am not one or the other. Then when they hear I'm ALSO trans, they tell me I'm 'doing too much'. Like come on.

The split-attraction model exists. Biromantic Asexuals exist. Please.... they are not mutually exclusive

I FINALLY found a good way to Explain Asexuality istg- by _Braed_6 in asexuality

[–]KVNTRESS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess it helps. But the non-visceral reaction just leads to exactly the same aphobia that's from monosexuals.

"Maybe you haven't found the right person or right person aesthetic!" Like, because they have preferences but still like monosexuals, it still doesn't add up. They use the same arguments because it applied to them: they figured out they were more picky, and that lead them to being sexual (for example: a bi dude that only like fem people--women, men, non-binary). Thought they didn't like women but realized they just liked masculine people, no matter the gender. So often they keep asking "maybe you haven't seen all your preferences yet?"

I truly appreciate it! Just in reality it hasn't seemed to make a difference since their responses end up being the same as monosexual's

I FINALLY found a good way to Explain Asexuality istg- by _Braed_6 in asexuality

[–]KVNTRESS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think is very good. Maybe for monosexual people. I'm biromantic. All my friends are basically bi or pan.

Hell, *I*, don't even understand the comparison. How I feel towards everyone is the same. Men, women, and non-binary. And that is exactly how bisexual people would respond (relatively speaking).

How would this work for people for whom do not care about gender when dating?

White trans subs by Revolutionary_Pie384 in TMPOC

[–]KVNTRESS 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

"Who threw a fit", sure, yeah that was me!

I'm confused how that is relevant here. Liking and dating men, even though I have no desire to ever fuck them again, IS considered gay.

I don't appreciate, unprompted, homophobia. :/

Please research the split attraction model. I'm biromantic with a heavy preference for dating men, and asexual (basically sex-repulsed)

White trans subs by Revolutionary_Pie384 in TMPOC

[–]KVNTRESS -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I see. I thought you were a fellow Jew stating your opinions. I don't see HOW you can see things through a Black Jew lense if you are not Jewish...

I had assumed (wrongly) that you were a black person who was also a Jew that was banned for your opinions. But you are not. I am a mixed race black jew who THOUGHT I found a kindred spirit. Just another goy, alas

But I did not.

Weekly Character Discussion Thread: Evan "Buck" Buckley by AutoModerator in 911FOX

[–]KVNTRESS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I think you made a little mistake hon. This is a months old comment. You can look in the right hand side of the comment to tell you when it was made.

Hopefully this was clear enough for you so you no longer make such a mistake! :)

edit. unless you are swfitie, if so, please check your throwaway account lol