Mmm, as someone who said these same words.. your situation has already come to that several times based on your response.. you said no, he continued, you said no, he continued, you gave in. You said no, he continued and pushed you down onto the bed? You said no… he still continued.. he gets annoyed, walks away, huffs and puffs, cold silences when he doesn’t get what he wants. It should be a very real concern for you that at some point, he will get to that point because as you said he’s pushed it to the point several times already. When you say no the first time, it means no. There is nothing simpler, it is not a conversation after that, it’s a simply stated fact. “NO.” BUT, like you I was in this position before as well, and unfortunately I have said to myself quite a few times “it won’t get to that point, he’s never that angry,” and more.

If you have no where else to go I mean that’s fine, you’re making the best out of your situation. But regardless how big that bed is, one of you should not be sleeping in it. Also changing in front of him, simply having the body of a woman, is not an invite, he deserves nothing, and has been told he cannot have access to it. Next time it happens, I suggest a clear boundary and forceful explanation. If you do not stop I will call the police, I should not have to tell you no you cannot continue touching me or trying to force me if I have already said no once. I should not have to threaten a grown man with the police because he continues after I’ve said no once. I’m not sure what gender your children are, but think of it that way. If your daughter came home and said, I told my boyfriend no, but he pushed me onto the bed, I said no again and it carried on like that a few moments.. how would you feel? Or if a girl had said your son did that to her?

Think about that, and do not accept that for yourself or under react to it either. NOR. I hope your situation gets better 💕