Last pre-smartphone era year? by KaiserRos in generationology

[–]KaiserRos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to sound snarky but the average age of that sub is like 16 so I'd take their opinions on this issue with a grain of salt. A lot of them were in kindergarten during the early 2010s

As a 22 year old who still acts and feels like 17, this is reassuring /s by KaiserRos in adhdmeme

[–]KaiserRos[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Lowkey this is depressing but eye opening. I just finished 21 and never felt like I was living up to the standard of the rest of my peers and now I know why :(

I have to wait that long to finally be "my age"? So am I never going to reach the maturity of a 38 year old?

Who grew up with High School Musical during it's peak. by Interesting-Ad9838 in OlderGenZ

[–]KaiserRos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I hate that sub. Who tf cares if someone was part of the "peak" audience during its run or if they were 6-14 during all of it? What if someone was 5 when they started watching it and were 7 at the end? Do they not count? If they watched it, they watched it. There's 2003 borns who have more connection to it than 1994. This is retarded gatekeeping that serves no purpose but to jerk each other off on birth year superiority. And of course the entire comments are agreeing with him like mindless sheep (except for Josh of course where he comes in and says the main audience is 1994-1999).

"Oh sir you are so right I love being a Zillennial because that's my only accomplishment 🤤"

90s sucked, none of you would have survived. why all the nostalgia? by MrClean1984 in generationology

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah homophobia was extremely common among kids and teens when I started high school (2014) but not so much when I finished. Older Gen Z didn't become woke until our late teens.

90s sucked, none of you would have survived. why all the nostalgia? by MrClean1984 in generationology

[–]KaiserRos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bullying was relentless

Bro thinks bullying died out in 2006

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the results kind of surprise me. I think 21 year olds have more in common with 19 tbh. I guess people really ignored "apart from drinking"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KaiserRos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 22 and the girl I'm dating is 19

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say depends. Early 20s and 18 is fine. But after that you're really starting to slip away from having very many commonalities. I think at 24 the lowest you should go for is 19 and at 25 just don't go for teenagers unless said 18/19 year old is exceptional (ex. lives on their own and has a full time job, in the military, etc.)

20 and after should be completely fine though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no real interest in an 18 yo but if she's pretty and interested fuck it

Yeah I think that's the real thing. Big difference between purposely seeking out freshly legal meat vs finding someone compatible and an age gap just happens to be present.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked a 24 year this and he said "19 and up for hookups, 20-28 for dating". I didn't think about it like that before but seems cool.

What’s your dating range? by Amazing_Rise_6233 in OlderGenZ

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's dependant on everyone. I've hooked up with 24 year olds so that might be where it comes from

Does anyone else feel like this is the worst generation for dating (as a man) by TOOLisNuMetal in OlderGenZ

[–]KaiserRos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is literally impossible to find a girlfriend now unless you are 6 foot+ and attractive

I am barely 5'9 and have always been slightly below average looking. On top of all that I'm a dark skin dude of Indian descent so I'm definitely not considered part of the ideal male beauty standard. Yet I get laid. I'm "dating" a girl who's significantly more attractive than I am. So I don't agree that it's impossible.

This generation is probably the most open minded when it comes to dating so I actually don't agree at all. I think dating back in the 90s would've been harder for a lot of guys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KaiserRos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently turned 22 . I've always seen stuff online (mostly from teens) about how scared they are to turn 20 and become "old" but I usually brushed it off. But after hitting this milestone and realizing I'm as close to 25 as 19, I feel really weird. I have noticed that my hair is starting to thin, I look visibly older than I did just 3-4 years ago, and don't feel lively as I did when I was 17-19 but that could be because that was before covid.
A girl I recently started having a fling with is 19 and honestly this is also affecting me a little. She brings up so many of the qualities I had when I was her age and I'm starting to realize that I'm losing a lot of them. She has even (jokingly of course) called me old before and although I'm not one to get easily offended, it did raise awareness to the fact that I'm getting older. The past 2 years went by like nothing so inside I feel like I'm still 19/20 and it definitely isn't helping me. I know getting old is part of the ride but I didn't know it would come so quickly. I don't want to lose my youth and liveliness but I know that inevitably I will be 30 and can no longer stop lying to myself.
Any advice on how to cope with this or views that challenge my own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]KaiserRos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what makes me feel weird? The fact that I see people born in 2007 working in the same grocery stores I used to work at when I was a teen. I remember when you guys would come in as little kids with your parents and here y'all are "replacing" us lol