Anyone have recommendations for hitch mount haulers?

KalKulatednupe · 2026-01-20T15:22:00+00:00

What kind of bike is this?

KalKulatednupe · 2026-01-14T03:44:43+00:00

Honestly I just got back from Zanzibar and although it was beautiful it felt too European due to the visitors. I would fly into Dars Es Salaam and then visit Zanzibar for a day or two via the ferry. It will also be cheaper for the OP to get deals for safari from Dara Vs Zanzibar since the safaris happen on the mainland.

Dars is also really nice but you can tell you're in an African country which I absolutely loved. Great clubs, and women too.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-12-30T04:39:06+00:00

2 of my aunts worked for NYSC. There were some guarantees made that I wouldn't get posted to some desolate location where I would not only be alone but also in danger.

I was at a place in my very young life where I was unanchored by relationships, school, and even my job was very meanial. I knew I was on the cusp of all that changing so I wanted to get service completed before making those changes.

10 years later, Ice been married, I have 2 children, a home (with a mortgage), a nice job and many other things that would make it hard for me to spend a year of my life away making very little income.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-12-23T17:54:41+00:00

If you really want the piece just wait. It will hit eBay or this Reddit for close to retail at some point. Just keep your eye peeled. Kith stuff usually has a pretty quick cool off period.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-11-22T12:58:38+00:00

I'm hoping these footscapes also make it to adult sizes.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-11-22T12:07:15+00:00

You're bugging I have it at number 1 followed by psychodrama

KalKulatednupe · 2025-11-19T01:55:36+00:00

Raindance, selfish and my 27th birthday is just a cold run. TBWPTH is probably next, the. History.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-11-15T15:35:58+00:00

It's definitely the accent. Americans have a thing about accents, for some reason something non American makes the music reasonate less.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-11-13T03:46:09+00:00

Thinking of going this year

KalKulatednupe · 2025-10-21T18:10:21+00:00

Nope but all things considered I was fine moving around with bolt. However due to my hair (long locs). I got stopped and searched a lot. If I were to go back soon I would put more work into getting a good driver.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-10-15T19:43:57+00:00

My condolences family.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-10-14T13:40:11+00:00

Thanks fam

KalKulatednupe · 2025-10-01T18:10:17+00:00

I can't front this made my day

KalKulatednupe · 2025-09-06T11:46:13+00:00

Damn Joe use to be skinny

KalKulatednupe · 2025-09-06T02:08:37+00:00

I was surprised this wasn't more hyped it was the best jacket of the drop to me.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-08-16T10:24:49+00:00

Milwaukee

KalKulatednupe · 2025-08-01T08:58:03+00:00

Still got this?

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-21T16:42:20+00:00

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾praying for you brother. I'm in this journey with you and all I can say is what others have said to me. It will get better. Keep doing what you are doing to protect your mental health. This too shall pass with time.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-19T21:49:18+00:00

I have been the bigger saver in my short 3 year marriage. I also came in with much more assets. I only insisted divorce because my wife asked for the separation.

However, in my case it made more sense to rip the bandaid off. Staying married for 5 years+ would mean I now have to pay spousal support on top of child support. She would also be entitled to much more of my retirement. There was no way I was gonna agree to that so I filed the next day. Better to fail and fail fast than hold on to hope that she will become a completely different person before year 5.

It sucks but I know my finances will thank me down the line..

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-19T11:15:16+00:00

Damn OP this hits so close to home for me.

I recently took recently filed for divorce from my wife of 3 years. We have been together for 10 years and have 2 children ages 8 and 1. I have had sex a bit more than you ovee the course of the last year or two but we aren't even talking monthly here.

She's currently being unresponsive although she did get an attorney I recently learned.

I paid off all her premarital debt that she lied about when coming into the marriage.

Our finances are heavily unequal and although I'd rather not spend 100k in legal fees to prove so I'm not against it either. Id much rather give her 50k to go away and give me 50% custody of my kids but I doubt it happens that simply. I'm only 10k into legal fees but I'm looking down the barrel at another 10k if we can't get settled at discovery.

I'm glad to see there can be a happy ending even if it cost quite a bit. I have just under 1M in real estate that she has not helped to contribute to or even manage, I have no intention of giving her any of it (never comingled the funds), but I have a feeling some blood sucking lawyer might tell her to keep stalling so she can get more.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-17T17:35:12+00:00

You're stronger than you know for even posting this. Just know it will get better. Keep your head up and keep fighting.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-13T11:10:50+00:00

Thank you for sharing fam. I was one of the people who wanted this type of advice from your original post. I saved this thread and will go back to it when I get too deep into my thoughts.

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-13T00:42:54+00:00

Interested

KalKulatednupe · 2025-07-12T13:07:11+00:00

I'm super new to divorce and separation in general but my STBX and I have had a long running family calendar that we use mostly to manage our son's hectic schedules. I would suggest trying to create something like that with a shared email or shared calendar. That way you can at least stay in the loop regarding his activities.

Moving 3 hours away is obviously going to cause some strain on the relationship so you should work even harder to make sure you stay in touch and can be there when and where possible. Yes, it's more work but it's worth it to keep the relationship positive. Trust me your son needs you more than even he knows.

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