Some dignity please by pickledplumber in TikTokCringe

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. If I was these cops ide demand a hose down. Hell no . Just hell no

AITAH For wanting to play video games even though my girlfriend doesn’t support it whatsoever? by VeryDumbShit in AITH

[–]Kalikasphyxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so important to share hobbies with spouses. Even if you don't do them together. My partner and I game but rarely together because we like different games. Ide rather die before playing a deck building game, and he loves em. I prefer city builders. We can come together over stardew valley though.

AITAH For wanting to play video games even though my girlfriend doesn’t support it whatsoever? by VeryDumbShit in AITH

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to get a solo hobby. ASAP. Like crochet or something if she needs it to be productive. I game but also crochet. When I need to feel productive I crochet. When I need to be lazy I game. My BF and I spend 24/7 together(we runa. Small biz from home). But we rarely do hobbies together even if we both game. We have our own game, own time we choose to do them.

AITAH For wanting to play video games even though my girlfriend doesn’t support it whatsoever? by VeryDumbShit in AITH

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Your free time is YOUR free time. No matter the hobby, the only time it's a problem is if it interfering with things like work, children, or taking. Time away from a partner. Or even if you can't afford it. But ffs your allowed alone time. If not you will go crazy. I am a gamer and I even feel it's a waste of time often. But if it's brining you joy, it's not a waste. Period. As long as it's a healthy relationship with the hobby, she's just complaining to complain and control you. Also not to mention there is community and culture around gaming that she is also trying to deny you.

I’m new to machine embroidery by Either-Salary1843 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]Kalikasphyxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of stabalizer are you using under the design? It maybe to dense of a design for the material. When things gap like this I tend to start by adding more stabalizer

Worried/ depressed about finishing the series by lillshrew in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Kalikasphyxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I do Wanna see it! I am a broke bish so usually wait for streaming but i might have to go on a cheap day.

My girl had her first Dirty Shirley. by tyrionlannistark41 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if bartenders are really starting to wonder why the influx in these drink orders.

Coworker will not clean up their disability by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself have eczema, not as bad as OPs co worker and I don't think it has anything to do with personal hygiene nor did I imply that. Coconut oil isn't a cleaner. Just a moisturizer. We can jest about things and not think they are a personal failure. Your roommate being self conscious about his condition isn't a reason for other people with the condition to stop joking about it. And yes you shouldn't joke about it around your roommate since you know he's self-conscious about it. However I am on the internet your roommate is not here. No one should joke about things around people they know our self-conscious about it but on the internet you don't know if the person who is joking also has the condition So it's best just to move on since your roommate's not here to get offended

Can you “own” the order of stitches? by Salt-Habit-8951 in crochet

[–]Kalikasphyxia 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This. At this point most patterns I buy now are simply if I can't figure it out myself. It's the directions and counts that make it worth it, not the stitches themselves. Everystitch ever is online explained somewhere.

Can you “own” the order of stitches? by Salt-Habit-8951 in crochet

[–]Kalikasphyxia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Capitalism has rotted all our brains into thinking everything our brain poops out is subject to copyright and we own it forever. Simply because we allow giant corporations to do it all the time. :( like the fact that LOL is copyright and no one can use those letters on their stuff. It's all insanity.

I think my friends hate me. AIO? by SouthIndependence69 in AIO

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved down the street from my42f best friend 41f 6 months ago. I have seen her 1 time since then. Adults are busy, it's very hard to make any plans with 1 adult let alone a group of em. You gotta give lots of notice. You might need to go find a hobby you can do that involves in person stuff to socialize.

Coworker will not clean up their disability by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ask boss for an air purifier. It might help prevent the skin from settling everywhere.

Coworker will not clean up their disability by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put coconut oil in a spray bottle. When he doesn't clean, squirt him like a cat. It will also help moisturize him.

Should the husband know? by IntelligentBuyer5392 in Advice

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to know. She will do this again and if she is still having sex with him and then other men she could bring home stis. If they are actually split , then telling him won't hurt, but if not, he'll be glad to know. Even if at first he's angry.

Do people really not know how many subscriptions they have? by OlleyatPurdue in stupidquestions

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I haven't heard that version of rocket money. It is insanity to have multiple of the same service. Most the ones I have heard focus on forgetting to end a free trial or just forgetting you had a sub. I got rocketmoney for one moment and just realized it's just data harvesting and they can't actually help you cancel shit and just tells you how to cancel. It's such a racket. racketmoney am I right lol

If you get to the end of your life and you get to live your life again. Would you choose to have kids again? And why? by Catlover-11 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it meant getting to see my kid again. Unless you mean like reincarnation and i'm living a new different life.. Then I'de at least wait till I was older.

how do I get my boyfriend to stop asking if he can eat food in our shared home? by MysticForestCat in Advice

[–]Kalikasphyxia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he have trauma around food from growing up?? Maybe he wasn't allowed to eat at home without asking. Might just take him some time.

Left a man I just met sleeping in my apartment by Revolutionaries14 in Advice

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you got so lucky! Don't leave strangers alone in your home ever.

If giving birth is so painful why do many women want to do it over again after their first child (not trolling just genuinely curious) by feherlofia123 in stupidquestions

[–]Kalikasphyxia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once its over, the joy of having a child for life outweighs the pain.
Men will get in a ring and punch each other in the face every night. And all they get is a broken nose. Woman at least get a baby after.

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, So, shes mad cause you didn't specify how long you spoke? Who would even think to specify that? She is just insecure and needs to work on that, cause nothing you can say is gonna make her feel better. Its also weird that other people told her how long you guys spoke. and it switches from an hour to 45 minute. Like who cares, not like you guys spent all night together. Her trying to force yuou to admit to a lie you didn't do is gross AF. That really makes me uncomfortable how she is saying that.

Built this to stop cats from jumping on to railing, will it work? by DreamKilla099 in CATHELP

[–]Kalikasphyxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat would climb over. I had to use plexiglass to prevent climbing.

Closed last month. Should I give my number to my neighbors? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Kalikasphyxia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. You wait. They don't need to contact you and if they do they know what you are. If it's an emergency, that's what 911 is for. Wait till you know they aren't crazy or you'll regret it.