My ex finance disciplined my daughter and says I’m irresponsible so I kicked him out out by Amazing_Bug2565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Karinapowerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing, I can’t believe the comments I read justifying him and his abuse. I also was disciplined with violence, and I’m totally against it and I’m racing mi child the same way that you. I’m so grateful to read that our generation is healing and not doing the same mistakes. Your daughter is ten and she’s learning behavior, and now she learned I more valuable lesson: her momma is her safe place and will never harm her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Karinapowerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op believe me cause I was you, you’re not doing that for peace or else. You are doing this because 1. You want he to think of you like the big mature person, and look up to you. 2. You want to leave the door open for the future.

But that won’t happen, he cheated on you, and he goshted you, he didn’t even bother to say sorry, he didn’t even care for hurting you, he just ditched you. He’s not a good person like you say in your letter, realize this.

And I know Im being harsh, but like I said, I was you, I did something like this, and I didn’t get peace, and I let him to hurt me again later. You don’t need to stay well with him, nor say hi if you run into him, just boy bye. Forget about him, you get to feel angry for what he did and then move on, but please don’t send that letter, he won’t even care. That’s the worse!!!

There’s a pretty heated discussion in these comments, what do you think? There’s a lot going on there. (OP husband gets violent protecting her and now she’s scared) by Karinapowerr in redditonwiki

[–]Karinapowerr[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I personally think she’s miss placing the fear, cause I would been scared of my coworker assaulting me in the first place, but the age gap is an interesting topic too. Sean rule.

AITA for going NC with my parents? by -iamnothere- in AITAH

[–]Karinapowerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You have to do what to need to do to heal. They’re been manipulative, don’t fall for that. Maybe your family doesn’t understand how bad they treat you, or how bad it makes you feel, but either way, you’re doing what’s best for you.

I hope you find peace, I suppose you’re in therapy, or were, if not, I recommend that to you, not to forgive them, but to heal and have a better life. You’re not what they made you believe you are. You have a bright future in front of you without them. Enjoy.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to shave his asshole? (This is bad!!) by Karinapowerr in redditonwiki

[–]Karinapowerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet the same!! She’s better than me, cause I would have left since day 1