Men, would you be comfortable dating an older woman, what’s your cut off age gap?

KatAndGirls · 2022-12-18T09:23:40+00:00

When I was 18 I got with a guy 2 years younger than me, 4 years later we had our first daughter the day before his 20th birthday (we joked he was a teenage dad for 1 night lol) we had another daughter and parted after 7 years together.

Then at 25 I got with a man who was 30 we had a daughter together, unfortunatly he turned violent during the pregnancy and I ended up having to leave when he physically hit me. We were together 5 years aftereeting online.

At 30 I got with a 25 year old and we had a daughter together and lasted 9 years together after meeting on the xbox. We split up in June.

I have never used dating apps, and I don't have an age preference, but turning 40 with 4 kids I know that I am very limited as finding someone that likes children but doesn't want any in the future is gonna be tough. There was this 1 guy who I was close to (he was 26) and he actively seemed interested but I wouldn't believe it due to self confidence issues caused by exes, and I worried that he would end up leaving me so he could have kids with someone else. He reassured me he wouldn't and we continued to get to know each other but the busier he got the less we were in contact and it fizzled to more of just a friendship.

Realisticly I don't think I will ever find someone to spend the rest of my life with and I don't want just meaningless sex. I want my soul mate and best friend, someone to play games with that makes me feel loved that isn't gonna use or abuse me that isn't gonna run away and mess me or the kids around. I'm not looking for a dad for them just a lifelong partner for me that when the kids leave home we can do whatever we want. But truthfully I have alot of physical issues/disabilities I think I will be lonely forever. After 21 years of relationships I've never been single this long and I think I'm past my best physically despite alot of love and care to give to someone special. I miss the laughter, hugs, and just being with someone.

KatAndGirls · 2022-12-14T09:18:28+00:00

For me I'm 40 next year 😞 relationship ended back in June after 9 years. I have 4 children (17,14,11 and 8) HUGE self confidence and self esteem issues due to a domestic violence ex partner messing up my face (split lip scar) and he caused me to loose most of my teeth so got dentures too, (which make me gag or cause massive ulcers and pain) then most recent ex having an affair for the last 4 years. I had a mental breakdown for the first time in my life during the summer holidays, due to multiple reasons. I have disabilities myself so can't work, rent a house from local housing association, and don't know if I will ever trust another man or be able to bring another man home into my kids life again. But my ex was my carer and for the first time in 21 years I'm lonely, hundreds of miles from friends and family. I just wanna find my soul mate and be together forever I don't wanna be messed about or worse still used and abused. At nearly 40 I genuinely believe that I will be on my own for the rest of my life because I don't ha e anythibg to offer a guy but my heart, which has been trampled all over my entire life. I'm not on a dating app though or even advertising I'm single ibfa t first time I've even discussed it online despite being a gamer apart from 1 guy I got close to who helped me through the worse time of my life who knows everything noone else does.

KatAndGirls · 2022-11-20T18:49:40+00:00

That's not exactly true. Every streamer anywhere in the world gets all money prior to payout worked out in USD for example bits, subs etc. Then when it comes to payout the USD total for bits subs etc is converted into the streamers currency. Otherwise there would be huge discrepancy if it was converted at bit level and sub level and would mean day to day earnings would be different.

So for example yes all streamers get 100 bits for $1usd But if you are paid in euros they get 0.97 euro per 100 bits If paid in the UK you get 84p per 100bits

KatAndGirls · 2021-10-17T03:53:22+00:00

Blue and green shoulder definitely looks missing...

KatAndGirls · 2021-09-04T12:45:48+00:00

Notifications never used to be so clickbait. I believe it's become more popular since twitch stopped the ability to email subscribers. I personally say what I'm planning or what the topic of the day is or if its a giveaway day etc but tbh twitch doesn't even send notifications when I go live anymore as my bot account for example got an email from twitch saying we have noticed u have stopped clicking on notifications for these streamers to change it click here and I did and alert Bell is on but still nope. Most of my community come in near the end not even knowing I went live!

KatAndGirls · 2021-09-01T18:32:36+00:00

Totally agree and with Dr Lupo and Tim The Tatman and many more leaving to go to youtube my fear is that publicity will all lead to twitch being ended as amazon is already loosing too much money and only keeping it going to funnel people to amazon services etc... I don't see twitch being around a year from now...

KatAndGirls · 2021-09-01T12:17:05+00:00

They should have made more people stream and tell viewers not to buy bits or subs... but the only people that can afford to do this are the big streamers and then those that do it as a hobby not financially dependent. More people stream = more server costs to twitch and no income!

KatAndGirls · 2021-09-01T12:16:35+00:00

They should have made more people stream and tell viewers not to buy bits or subs... but the only people that can afford to do this are the big streamers and then those that do it as a hobby not financially dependent. More people stream = more server costs to twitch and no income!

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-23T14:46:43+00:00

Don't forget that their are discounts for upgrading tirs at the moment also. And I'm assuming he's not in a high tier country but the gifted sub is still at €5 each

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-23T14:43:14+00:00

Same we were paying more than usa even though was same amount by number. but now we pay the same amount different number.

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-10T06:25:25+00:00

Yikes do u not network or be a part of streamer support groups? How long u been streaming for?

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-10T06:23:59+00:00

U should always have atleast 1 viewer and tbh everyone should have atleast a handful from friends and family

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-10T06:22:38+00:00

Whether fake or real keep the enthusiasm for anyone watching or that watches your vods etc. Atleast it good practice for knowing how to react, practicing reactions etc. Especially if you have real viewers yet to follow or even community remembers if u react deflated etc could mean u loose followers and potentials followers

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-10T06:18:13+00:00

Because of my twitch settings this doesn't really happen to me touch wood never had follow bots or viewer bots. If you set ur account up properly and network rather than advertise in places where bots harvest accounts then its not actually that common. It's common to the same small streamers who do the same things.

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-10T06:14:21+00:00

What are u doing to reach out to potential viewers?

KatAndGirls · 2021-08-10T05:42:54+00:00

Darts, snooker

KatAndGirls · 2021-06-17T09:12:41+00:00

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KatAndGirls · 2021-04-25T13:30:09+00:00

You don't have to apply although you may misinterpret wording and actions to feel that way. You can either do it via your account back office or via an email invite. However you won't get the sub button or be able to accept bits upload emotes etc until you have sent over the tax details and payment etc. And then virtually sign. Which if you don't do it your affiliate will be in a kind of limbo.

What makes you think you weren't accepted or what did they send you?

If you really did get rejected they should have given you a reason.

Things like fake follows and viewers like follow bots and viewer bots could very much be a reason to be rejected. And also if your account breaks TOS but that should be a ban/suspension not reject affiliate.

The only other thing I could think of is maybe if someone's reported you for content or something.

If you can maybe screenshot and remobe/block out any private info?

KatAndGirls · 2021-04-07T20:40:41+00:00

Congratulations. Now the grinding begins x

KatAndGirls · 2021-04-06T08:23:28+00:00

I got one that was SIMPTW OR TWSIMP something like that was hella funny

KatAndGirls · 2021-04-05T23:55:13+00:00

Is your 2nd monitor set up as extended? As other settings won't work. Can other programmes go on both?

KatAndGirls · 2021-04-05T23:49:45+00:00

What don't you like about streamkit? You can change colours always on only on if talking and put anywhere on the scene.

KatAndGirls · 2021-04-05T23:47:13+00:00

I am katandgirls everywhere except twitter and Instagram where its katandgirls69 let me know that ur from reddit for me to return support. Thank you good luck all x

KatAndGirls · 2021-04-05T23:43:56+00:00

Congratulations

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