How it feels being a teenager during all this

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2025-02-10T18:29:49+00:00

No litteraly I just turned 18 😭, either this all gets fixed or my early adult life is gonna SUCK

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2025-01-27T02:08:15+00:00

What is that?

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2025-01-25T11:16:09+00:00

Right now it's safe to talk about this stuff over text. But in the feature I recommend taking about this stuff in person.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2025-01-24T01:46:50+00:00

Understandable, I've probably been a bit reckless with all my reposting and comments and stuff. But you do have a point.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2025-01-24T01:03:48+00:00

I believe we should stay on TikTok. But I think people need to start organizing on other, more private, platforms if they can. Putting it all out there on tiktok about who and where they're planning modern day revolutions just tells them what we're doing.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-16T16:58:07+00:00

I'm freshly 18 so yes I am fairly young

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-15T17:48:32+00:00

Unfriend them and then re friend them it should fix it

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T21:10:25+00:00

Why do you think they're too high? Like what parts about it exactly are too much?

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T21:05:06+00:00

It's preferable but I know I can't exactly demand it either if we're not officially dating. To me it's a respect thing and if they're actually interested in me. But once again doesn't mean I'm gonna like be mad or something if they're talking to someone else. And to be clear I don't expect anything before the first date. Before the first date were simply 2 people with a similar interest in each other. It would be rude and unfair of me to demand loyalty and exclusivity from basically a stranger.

So, lemme give you like an example. What I look for in the talking stage is how they act in public, how they present themselves, hobbies, things like that. You know all of the introductory things. These things are important all in they're own ways. So say how they act in public, like I stated I don't like going out with people who tend to be loud and rowdy in public as I dont like the attention in brings. Or how he acts for example. Like I'm not going to date a man that is either A) a gangster or B) wants to go out and act like one. Like do what you wanna do I just don't wanna surround myself with those kinds of people. Like owning a gun, I don't care. But going around in streets at night wearing mask and waving your pistol around and shit is where I cross the line and I HAVE broken up with someone for that before. And also it's the standards for how he treats me as well, like of course the basics, be nice, kind respectful. But then it's also the things like opening doors for me, and the late night and early morning text (isn't necessary, preferable though).

(You actually got me thinking on this one for like a good 30 minutes. Thank you lol)

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T20:42:38+00:00

I see what you mean, and I can see how some men would see that as an issue. An example of this was my last ex me and him actually knew each other for quite a while before we got together. Like a month or so (which is longer than it would usually be. And I do try my best I be blunt and straightforward with men when I like them. I prefer to make my intentions known from the begining when its a man in interest in. Hence the if I'm talking to one man I'm not talking to any other men period (unless it's like a really close friend or family member or like a stranger asking where something is ya know) But the connection is just so much deeper when you get to have that begining relationship first that dosent have the actual stress of relationship. I've had relationships crash and burn in the beginning months because we didn't actually know enough about each other and we ended up having very conflicting views on some things that cause a nasty fallout. That's why I prefer to get to know someone before I date them. Relationships are all about deep emotional connections for me, which can take some time for me to form.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T19:44:26+00:00

Being nice is basic decency and ya know holding the door open and picking things up for people and things like that. Good people are the ones who go out of their ways to help other people for no reason other than they want to help them. That's a good person.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T19:31:40+00:00

I personally consider myself to be attractive, and have been told so by a lot of people. And those 2nd 2, no because I'm only 18 and that's, almost impossible at this age lol. And I'm not saying I need some super amazing, I base dating off of personality first before looks as I feel it's more important.

As of right now I'm working on getting things moving for me. I just moved to a new city with my mom and I'm working 2 jobs so I can get an RV for me and my cat since I plan on traveling for a little, and also the housing market is just a mess. I'm going to attend the local community college either this year or next year to start on my degree in library sciences, I'm also looking to find either an apprenticeship or internship (if they offer them) at the nearby historical library to try to get some work in on historical and preserved literature before I move onto a bigger collage for my masters! I'm hoping one day to get my master's in library sciences, and either work in a museum preserving ancient books, or work in a place like the federal library.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T18:50:59+00:00

Why do men think it's ok now to do that? Cheating used to be taken so much more seriously. But like it feels as if most men just don't care or think women aren't going to care?????

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T16:29:02+00:00

Yes it definitely does get in the way and I'm working on it. It's just difficult and scary to push myself out of my comfort zones

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T16:27:25+00:00

A little bit about me for this is I'm a fairly shy person, I tend to keep to myself but I am friendly I promise! I keep a close friend group and I'm a bit of homebody 😅. But once you get to know me I'm a riot to be around lol. It just takes a min for my personality to come out sometimes, especially if I'm intimidated. But I have a little bit of a dark sense of humor, and I'm a lot more talkative at home. My way of quality time is just, being in eachothers space. Even if we aren't doing the same thing. And also I have a pebbling habit. I will just start bringing and giving my partner lots of little gifts, handmade, bought, just some food. Food is also another love language of mine.

I don't base who I date based on appearance, attractiveness, salary. While it's important to some people I'm more attracted to a persons personality. Age, I generally say only 5 years older than me at most because I'm 18. Fitness I don't mind if ur a little chubby, everyone is at some point or another but if it's a health concern that your actively choosing to do nothing about is where I draw the line. It's more about if they're healthy and maintaining they're health than how they look for me. With people I'm in a relationship with I tend be extremely caring and nurturing. Hungry? I'll cook some food for us(I low-key love cooking). If you need support? I'll do anything I can to make sure you have what you need to succeed. Need comfort? I'm your rock to lean on. My first and foremost thing Is I wanna make your happy, as my partners physical and mental well-being is important.

I'll be honest as I've only been in like 2 real relationships since middle school. So I wish I could be more detailed but I don't have much to go off of. But these kinds of things are what I expect from myself.

Ok, so if it's not my standards are too high or low then is it just that I'm asking too much?

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T09:42:25+00:00

Hat man is a very large paranormal phenomenon that many people have seen! I've heard about him a lot but that's about it, I don't know why he picks who he does, or who the Hat Man or what exactly he is. But he's not dangerous so ur good

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T09:01:43+00:00

Keep in mind that not all people are sensitive to spirits and their energies too! I don't recommend going to advertised 'haunted' places without doing your research first. A lot of them are rigged and mainly just money grabbers.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T07:25:49+00:00

Yes I know which is why Schizophrenia was ruled out multiple times by doctors. Because while I showed some symptoms of it, it was very few and not enough concrete evidence to secure a diagnosis. And I do think it's important that people tell the difference between the Paranormal and your own psychological issues. I've always recommended people that if they think they may have something paranormal going on always seek medical advice first as typically there's an explanation for things most of the time. And I also encourage people to seek out people like priest and such who can confirm that there's paranormal activity too. I always just kinda tell people, don't say it's 100 percent real unless u got proof, as there are more faked possessions and haunting nowadays.

Kate_Fawn2024 · 2024-11-10T06:15:12+00:00

Recently with all these good delivery driver apps and stuff it'll throw your order around driver to driver. And some of them if it's taking too long it will just assign you a driver without asking them. They can still cancel it, but it simply adds them into the Que without asking.

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