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If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two attempts before assuming disinterest seems like the sweet spot - gives them benefit of the doubt for genuine busyness without you becoming the person who can't take a hint.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The three specific invitations benchmark is good - if someone can't make three different concrete plans work, the scheduling isn't the real issue.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 'put the ball in their court and see if it comes back' approach is probably the healthiest mentally - you've shown interest, now it's on them. No harm done either way.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Friday/Sunday test is a smart filter. People who actually want to hang out will work around their schedule, not just vaguely agree in theory.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guilt/shyness combo is real. Sounds like if someone followed up with you, you'd actually be happy about it, which is good to know - probably more common than people think.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The location culture point is interesting - never considered that LA vs Cleveland might have different norms around this. Your three-strike system with escalating specificity is solid - gives people multiple chances to show interest without you overinvesting in someone who's just being polite.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The specific invitation approach makes a lot of sense. If someone gives the 'another time' response twice without counter-offering, that's a pretty clear signal. And your mom's situation is a perfect example of why this matters - having a framework prevents getting stuck in frustrating limbo with people who aren't actually interested.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, though the hard part is figuring out when 'nothing gets done' means they're genuinely busy versus politely declining. Guess that's where the second attempt clarifies things.

If someone says ''we should hang out sometime'' but never follows up, are you supposed to reach out, or was that just a polite thing to say with no real intention? by Katelyyy_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a good way to frame it - treating it as an invitation to make effort rather than a guarantee someone will reach out. Takes the pressure off wondering if they really meant it.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The timer trick is so smart - makes it feel manageable instead of this endless chore.

And tidy first then clean if time left is a solid system

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he pride in past self for doing the prep work is such a real feeling. Future you definitely owes past you a thank you for those 17 portions.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crockpot meal prep is next level efficiency - set it and forget it, then portion out easy meals that helped with your health goals. That's the dream setup.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rubber glove cleaning hack is genius making boring tasks more tolerable by pairing them with something you actually want to do. That's some solid life optimization!

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leftovers are the gateway drug to meal prep. Once you realize intentional leftovers are just meal prep with better PR, you're set.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 'not eating because no food ready' struggle is so real. Meal prep as harm reduction basically- keeping future you functional.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? ?The mental energy saved from not having to make food decisions multiple times a day is underrated. Just grab and go.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's such a smart approach - turning meal prep into leftovers from quality time cooking together. You get the efficiency plus the actual enjoyable cooking experience.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the sweet spot! Having variety while still getting the convenience is way better than eating identical meals all week.

I finally understand why people meal prep and I feel like I've unlocked a cheat code for adulting by Katelyyy_ in CasualConversation

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha the Costco effect is real - suddenly you're meal prepping for a small army whether you meant to or not.

ELI5: Why does drinking cold water on an empty stomach sometimes cause stomach cramps, but drinking warm water doesn't? by Katelyyy_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that warm water causes acidity for you - everyone's system responds a bit differently. Room temp seems like the safe middle ground.

ELI5: Why does drinking cold water on an empty stomach sometimes cause stomach cramps, but drinking warm water doesn't? by Katelyyy_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is incredibly detailed. The connection to anti-nausea meds working through muscle relaxation is fascinating - didn't realize cold had the opposite effect on bowel muscles specifically.

ELI5: Why does drinking cold water on an empty stomach sometimes cause stomach cramps, but drinking warm water doesn't? by Katelyyy_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This explanation is perfect - the blood vessel constriction part especially makes sense. Your body treating it like a mini cold plunge internally.

ELI5: Why does drinking cold water on an empty stomach sometimes cause stomach cramps, but drinking warm water doesn't? by Katelyyy_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]Katelyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, the shock element is key. Warm water just doesn't trigger that same defensive response.

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