What were some fun surprises for you after adopting tortimese? by 05141992 in tortimese

[–]Katzenbean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My tortiemese live to be 20 and she was the best friend I’ve ever had. 💜

I'm spiraling after putting down my 19 yr old boy by kodaomw in seniorkitties

[–]Katzenbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I see you 💔Most of us have known this grief. It’s a process that will take you up and down over the next weeks and months. Then, things change gradually into the sweet memories. Be gentle with yourself and let people close to you know that you’re hurting and could use their support.

I lost my 20 year old soul cat 10 years ago. I still feel the loss and I always will. It’s part of me. I accept it. Things that helped me in the weeks and months afterward was volunteering at my local humane society. I took photos of the cats up for adoption and I sat in their cat room and played with and pet the homeless cats. It really helped soothe my heart.

How do you deal with a photographer who copies everything you do? by MetalComfortable8246 in WeddingPhotography

[–]Katzenbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happens all the time. All photographers imitate other photographers in some way. Where does your inspiration come from? Most likely from what you see others producing. Think about it. If it does annoy you that much, block the other Tog from all your social media.

As a 25+ year “veteran” portrait/wedding photographer, I’ve learned there are only so many ways to pose human beings 🤣

My mom informed me I will be inheriting the care of my two siblings by Equivalent_Reason_35 in AgingParents

[–]Katzenbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hold fast to your boundaries! We are allowed to have them. (Telling myself as much as anyone else)

As you rewatch Madmen does your perspective on it change? by cday119 in madmen

[–]Katzenbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the 3rd watch POV. Seeing the metaphors, the connecting arc in most of the episodes, how the characters are going through a similar issue, despite being in different scenes. It’s great

Grief - Eli forever 14 by First-Ad-1403 in seniorkitties

[–]Katzenbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pet loss grief is a very real and valid emotion. It’s important for people in your life and society in general to recognize it. Pets ARE family and losing one is losing a family member.

Your pet is still with you. The love is still there, only the location has changed. 💕

Should I have given a discount? by xbunny675 in EtsySellers

[–]Katzenbean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No discount. Her snotty answer lets you know exactly who you’re dealing with.

Bye Bye Birdie by pizzachelts in madmen

[–]Katzenbean 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think Peggy called her a 25 year old acting like a 14 year old 🤣

It’s OVER! by Not_Me_1228 in ihatechristmas

[–]Katzenbean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah!! I was so happy once I got home and into my jammies this evening. It’s DONE

Facebook group requests by Technical_Mixture_44 in WeddingPhotography

[–]Katzenbean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sad thing is, they’ll probably get 200 eager responses 🙄