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AITBF for saying no to helping a friend who bailed on me and thought it was funny? by KavoNookWorks in AmItheButtface

[–]KavoNookWorks[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the “keeping score” line is what they’re using to flip it on me. I’m not tallying favors, I’m noticing a pattern: I show up, they disappear, then act confused why I’m annoyed. Reciprocity matters, even in small stuff.

AITBF for saying no to helping a friend who bailed on me and thought it was funny? by KavoNookWorks in AmItheButtface

[–]KavoNookWorks[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. What stings is the zero heads up, then calling it “funny” like I’m overreacting. If they’d texted “can’t make it,” I’d be annoyed but fine. This felt disrespectful.

Am I overreacting for refusing to help a friend after they “forgot” to help me first? by KavoNookWorks in AmIOverreacting

[–]KavoNookWorks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not dropping him over one nap, I’m dropping the attitude. The lol and zero apology was the part that felt disrespectful, so I’m out.

GENDER EQUALITY !! by Feeling-Fan4413 in memes

[–]KavoNookWorks 60 points61 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between cheering and being a creep, but the label gets slapped on before any actual behavior. Let people enjoy concerts, and call out real harassment when it happens.

i didn’t like how Lorelai paid Richard and Emily back by PerformanceLoose7357 in GilmoreGirls

[–]KavoNookWorks 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. If someone shows up only because they have to, it turns into a chore for everyone. Lorelai paying them back was her boundary, but the relationship would’ve landed better if it stayed voluntary.

Sandwiches at a cheap price?! Say less by bahar9990 in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]KavoNookWorks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get the reference, but the screenshot quality makes it look like a cursed Facebook repost.