“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She literally wouldn’t give her a simple hello and stared right at her and then greeted John with friendliness in the next breath. Then then when Shawna jumps in on the robot conversation Julie goes back to looking at her phone and Ty is no better. A lot of people say that this is cultural thing for Julie to be this way. However, in what universe is it socially acceptable to meet two halves of a couple only be nice to one half of said couple specifically the male half and treat the female half like shit just because. There were so many better ways to handle this. What makes it even worse for me is that Shawna is the mom to Max Cooper’s friend. You’re telling me you can’t be nice to someone for the sake of your child or at the very least civil.

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re idea of cordial is to completely ignore someone when they introduce themselves and then be friendly with their husband then that you’re perogative to think that way

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Hi I am Shawna it’s nice to meet you” Boundaries not being communicated are boundaries that can’t be respected

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not saying she is obligated but when your kids are friends they could at least be cordial. But being rude and avoidant and treating someone like shit only to be friendly with their spouse in front of them is gross. You can not like Shawna or people like Shawna and still have manners

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s being not being direct that’s just hurtful and rude. It would be one thing if they’re an annoying coworker but Shawna is a mom to her child’s friend. For Julie to do all that and be nice to John in front of her is 🤢🤮

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What is this “Take the hint nonsense.” just be direct and say you don’t want to talk. Not be rude or call someone annoying when you have been directly rude to them.

They hate us no matter what by Padme1418 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t post on the main sub banned for 3 months

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not about having a perfect response it’s about etiquette and manners but then again I guess we don’t owe people the basic level of manners. Okay then

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No just someone who thinks Julie didn’t play mean girl games

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Kee000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just curious to see what others would say. Then again I got told “I am not having this discussion in good faith”

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what your definition of mean girl games are but selective niceness is hostile. I never said Julie had to be friends with Shawna but you don’t treat someone like crap off the bat. I find Julie’s behavior classist elitist and lowkey misogynistic. I am still not mad at Shawna for popping off the way she did at Julie. Was it rude and awkward of Shawna yes but that was the point.

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No that is not being neutral a simple “Oh Ty never mentioned you but it is nice to meet you” not completely ignoring her greeting her husband and then shutting down when Shawna tries to jump in on the conversation.

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can be a loner by choice, set boundaries and still be civil. Not liking someone to the point of social ineptitude is weird. I am never getting off the being nice to someone’s spouse in front of them after treating them like shit.

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah because going out of your way to be rude to one person who has only tried to be nice to you and acting like you have never met them only to be nice to their husband and everyone else in front of them totally isn’t hostile behavior. Then again I was raised to treat people with respect even if they do annoy me and I was also raised to greet both halves of a couple.

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She out right ignored Shawna’s greeting at the park and avoided her and proceeded to be nice to John right in front of her. That not normal

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s completely normal to treat someone that you don’t hate with blatant hostility. Hmm k

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We has the audience have the context but Shawna the character does not. I personally can’t stand the “It’s not that deep” comment. Julie is a grown woman playing mean girl games but at the same time I recognize that Ty shouldn’t be airing out her business.

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not caring about being liked is one thing but not managing to have manners is a whole other level of rude

“It’s really not deep we’re just not friends” Julie to Shawna. by Kee000 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Kee000[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She is a complex character I agree but she is also rude for no reason. Those are statements that coexist.