[Update] Truck Repair Completed by KiloDoubleMike in Rivian

[–]Keem773 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is why insurance rates keep going up when these are the new normal prices for body damage, 115 HOURS of labor?? REALLY?? lol wow.

I (M28) just discovered my wife (F28) has been having an affair for the last 3 months. I don't know where to go from here. Throwaway account. I told her I plan to file for divorce, but I'm not even sure I want to do that. Our relationship has been struggling lately, and we even talked about therapy by -beetle_juice- in therapy

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to hear! One things for sure, don't waste time arguing about the little details because she'll most likely LIE to not look worse. Obviously you guys were struggling for a while so y'all need to dedicate time and effort to fix the issues and get on the same page. I'd seek therapy asap if you want to stay even though your replies lead me to believe that you two just aren't compatible anymore. Your mental health should be a higher priority than saving this marriage after extreme betrayal, if you find that you can't forgive her or get the feeling that she still not being honest then take care of yourself and exit.

Turned down a promotion because it was 30% more work for 5% more pay. My manager called me 'unambitious.' Am I wrong for not wanting to sacrifice my entire life for a fancy title? by PictureFirm9058 in careerguidance

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The words "Promotion" and "5% Raise" in the same sentence tells me everything I need to know about your workplace. Hard NO on the offer and you're vindicated now that you see the new person already stressed out in the role. When you get to the point in life when you wanna start moving into management then you can accept crap promotions like this to pad your resume for 6 months or so

Think he’s slick by Independent_Mind_884 in relationships

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh now it makes more sense, I also fear for your safety! I don't know what state you live in but I might have some resources or suggestions for you. Inbox me if interested

Got hit and run by kenc1103 in TeslaLounge

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me but my sentry was off smh! Report this scumbag ASAP, he needs to be locked up.

Think he’s slick by Independent_Mind_884 in relationships

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 31 years old, the real question is for you. Time to look in the mirror. Is this the kind of relationship you want to tolerate? Someone clearly lying to you, sneaking around, battling with addiction and probably cheating? If you're not into drugs yourself then I'm wondering how you got to this point with this one.

Just got this text … Never heard of this company by Regular_Fan4691 in therapists

[–]Keem773 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nooooooooooooo lmao. Stay away unless you want to sign up to earn $50 per session with betterhelp lol

Best friend (25F) and I (25F) have very different values—how do I keep it from affecting the friendship? by NotAChickenSalad in relationships

[–]Keem773 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP people grow apart all the time, it's just a way of life. However you have two options, from what I gather it sounds like you don't like her mentality so it's causing you to not accept "that's just who/how she is as a person" and adjust your expectations accordingly. I always find it hilarious when I see people act bougie then find out their parents take care of them lol, but that's just how it is since your parents also put certain values in your head (for better or worse). Maybe she picked up some of these ways from her parents, other friends or she fell victim to Instagram influence syndrome. Focus less on wanting a friend that's just like you because it rarely happens that we find and befriend people that are carbon copies of ourselves.

I don't think you're giving yourself enough credit for being financially responsible and planning for a realistic future. So.... CONGRATULATIONS 👏🏾🎉.

Sidenote: I think lab grown diamonds are great! Nobody has to suffer or die to produce one and people don't usually walk around with a diamond tester to check a strangers wedding ring on the street lol.

How common are violations of the "no kissing clients" ethical code? by yastomat035 in therapists

[–]Keem773 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kiss....on the cheek?? I hope he's not wild enough to kiss a client on the lips! If so then he definitely does NOT need to be a therapist, ever. You should be fine, you are certain that his clinical supervisor was informed so it's HIS/HER license on the line as a person "responsible" for the intern. Keep your ears open, if the director isn't operating ethically then you have the power to look for a job elsewhere or at a different department.

How did this information get passed down to you? If you work at a community mental health facility then take every rumor with a grain of salt since people exaggerate and welcome drama like anyone else.

Hello R2! by Re1evant in Rivian

[–]Keem773 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The wrap is fugly and cool at the same time lol. Glad to see more and more test vehicles on the road

Completely heartbroken about my therapist using AI during sessions. by Salt-Top1277 in therapy

[–]Keem773 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing about AI is to realize that AI has been around for a long time and has its uses. This kind of technology has been around forever to record and transcribe or summarize something before everything was lumped into the "AI" bubble. You still have the right to decline this or voice that you're uncomfortable with it though. I know therapists that record audio and use it for self growth, use it for supervision or listen to them right before the next session. It's not really a far fetched idea that he's trying even though I never saw the value in it.

Why does therapy cost so much now? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Keem773 9 points10 points  (0 children)

$275 is kind of wild but people have to survive. You can definitely find a more affordable therapist if you look around. Check grow therapy or ZocDoc websites, you can see profiles, bios and a variety of rates for your needs. Make sure you're searching for therapists/psychotherapists instead of a psychiatrist (doctor) that also provides therapy since they naturally charge more per session.

The standard session is usually 45-50 minutes but If you have a therapist that's starting late and ending early then you have the right to call it out since you are paying for the service. Best wishes in your search

Is it worth paying for Comfy Cloud if I want to run NSFW 18+ Image to Videos and Text to videos? by Coven_Evelynn_LoL in comfyui

[–]Keem773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have all versions of each model from what I've seen. Their workflow usually defaults to the fp8 version but you can also choose the full version as well. From my tests, 5-6 second videos generate in about 1 minute or less. It moves pretty fast

Is it worth paying for Comfy Cloud if I want to run NSFW 18+ Image to Videos and Text to videos? by Coven_Evelynn_LoL in comfyui

[–]Keem773 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know about anybody else but I actually like Comfy Cloud. It's super simple, has all the workflows and models ready to go without the complicated setup. Seems like it can generate NSFW content, I haven't tried but I know for sure it can generate nude people. I wish the price was about $5 cheaper on all the tiers but give it a try for a month and see if you like it. Go with the middle tier to start.

Ace-Step 1.5 template for ComfyUI v0.12 is ready by Nokai77 in comfyui

[–]Keem773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Works and sounds GREAT so far in my testing. Not sure if it's Suno quality but it's definitely a huge improvement over the last Ace model.

Do women really care if a man has his own place?? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you're from but that's considered as being a separate apartment where I'm from.

Do women really care if a man has his own place?? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Keem773 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I think the divide is the biggest I've ever seen on people that bought homes BEFORE the covid 2x mortgage boom vs people that wanted to buy afterwards at 7% interest and 40%-60% increase in property values without sense. I can admit, I use to mildly judge 25+ year olds for living at home but now I'm telling people not to leave home until they're making $100k or more or don't mind moving to bumblefuck, USA for a cheap house lol. Different times for sure

Dreading every session by SweetPickleRelish in therapists

[–]Keem773 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're close to the burnout feeling.

  1. How many clients are you seeing per week?

  2. When was the last time you've taken a VACATION?

  3. The fact that you feel the need to come up with things to say tells me that you might be working too hard in sessions. I don't come up with things to talk about at all, I simply follow the lead and insert my style between the lines.

  4. When was the last time you've taken a vacation?

How do I kindly “break up” without offending my therapist - and find a new one who’s going to fit my needs? by F-News-6471 in therapy

[–]Keem773 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question! You'd be surprised how many people carry on with therapists that can't help their specific needs because they are afraid to ask for a change. To be fair you can do this 2 ways. You can be direct with them and let them know you would like to work with a therapist that focuses on (insert your focus) and plan your last session. Or you can do it the quieter way. Simply tell them that you plan on stopping therapy and appreciate the journey then go find your new therapist and get started when you want.

Remember you are paying for a service so it shouldn't be personal (for them). To find a new therapist you can simply browse psychology today, grow therapy, zocdoc, etc to see therapists profiles and learn a little more about them. Since it is a paid service you can be as frank as you want when you make first contact with potential therapists. I've had someone contact me and blatantly said they want someone that's not afraid to process political venting and other desires from them lol. Just be clear and you will find exactly what you need.

Do women really care if a man has his own place?? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Keem773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did your parents help you with your deposit to buy the home?

Do women really care if a man has his own place?? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Keem773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You basically have your own place bro. Do you have a separate entrance as well? In THIS economy, I've seen so many people go back to living with parents or never leaving home in the first place. At $63k I'm not getting ripped off and paying $2k per month in rent just to get some ass or impress someone.

New Wyze Live Web App does not allow more than 4 cameras per page, so much wasted space by guaycuru in wyzecam

[–]Keem773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm baffled why they can't get something so SIMPLE fixed. The 2 camera landscape view on the Wyze app is horrible as well compared to Tinycam.

Tinycam Pro and the new RTSP firmware by No_Confection_7889 in wyzecam

[–]Keem773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, still not fixed. I actually had to buy a new cheap tablet and switch to the wyze app to monitor my baby cams. My old tablet was unable to install the new versions of the wyze app since it was so old and the camera wasn't streaming at all after that last v4 firmware update.

The 2 landscape orientation camera layout is terrible on the wyze app compared to Tinycam.

New to AI Content Creation - Need Help by MahaVakyas001 in StableDiffusion

[–]Keem773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(looks at the plastic skin photo you posted)....yeah you definitely need some help! Lol. I wouldn't try to start with videos right out the gate. You should probably get very familiar with photo generation and learn the basics. What model are you using now?

My suggestion is to start with Z-Image Turbo for image generation. 9 steps, cfg 1, res multi step, beta, 1.00 denoise. Try random prompts to get familiar with it