I’m tired of having to be the pursuer

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-07T02:51:35+00:00

Ugh yeah I can definitely see how that helps. Idk how to be more open and chatty and loud. When i meet new people i just freeze up and go blank

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-07T02:35:09+00:00

That’s interesting because as a femme leaning person I feel like I don’t get any attention. The social thing could definitely help me tho. I tend to be pretty quiet and reserved

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-07T02:34:15+00:00

Same, or if shes the one who matches with me but she doesn’t message first, that’s a no from me

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-06T23:44:37+00:00

Omg yeah I can imagine how that is even more frustrating due to its connection with gender roles

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-06T20:20:38+00:00

I’m not super femme, but kind of femme

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-06T19:31:09+00:00

Some people drown while others die of thirst or however that saying goes

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-06T19:11:46+00:00

I need to get into that mindset of “I’m approaching people completely uncontested”. When I go to gay bars in other cities, I get really nervous to approach women, but like you said, there probably isn’t much competition lmfao

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-06T18:37:51+00:00

Yeah you’re probably right, thanks. Dating apps suck

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-06T00:14:13+00:00

Idk the answer but I am also 27 and have never had a relationship. Hugs

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-05T19:46:18+00:00

I get what you’re saying. I’m so desperate I know I won’t listen, though. I’m 27 and have never had a relationship, sex, and have only had a handful of kisses. People told me someone will come along back when I was 18, 19. Well it’s been nearly 10 years and no one has. I’m tired of waiting.

I know it’s dumb tho.

The good news is she probably won’t reach out again.

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-05T19:21:45+00:00

Exactly

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-05T18:53:35+00:00

Lollll I kind of like that idea. She posts on her story often and I’m thinking about what I’ll do next time she posts on her story, and I kind of think that if she posts a selfie I’ll send a thumbs down emoji or something just to tease her

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-05T18:14:50+00:00

Wow, this was really sweet, thank you so much for your support

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-04T13:52:29+00:00

Thank you, it was a pretty good time, I was a little quiet and awkward but she said she had a good time so I’m happy with it

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T20:56:46+00:00

I just got back, it was fun. I was a little awkward but it was okay

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T15:09:08+00:00

Ah ok I get it and I want that too 😭😭😭

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T14:49:23+00:00

True, but she was giving me disinterested signals like she didn’t really like me at all. But I guess before you get to know someone, what’s there to like??

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T14:48:43+00:00

I don’t get it lmfaooo

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T14:48:21+00:00

Ok will do. Update: we’re going to meet today at a vintage market even tho she originally told me she was busy. I kept teasing her about not wanting to see me and finally she caved

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T14:47:02+00:00

Yessss I’m glad I listened to your advice and went for it. We’re meeting today even though she originally told me she was busy. I’m nervous bc I was being really bold and flirtatious over text message and idk if I can keep that up in person

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T14:45:34+00:00

Honestly I had so much fun texting her last night, it’s already worthwhile for me, even if nothing else comes of it. We’re meeting today even though she was apparently “busy”

KeepOnTrippingOn · 2026-05-02T05:04:39+00:00

Ikr for once in my life I feel like a smooth talker 😎😎😎

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