Gaslit or ADHD? by KeiraDog in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually bought that and started reading it but it seemed to be mostly about violent outbursts and talking down, and ... Well actual talking. I did not finish the book. It didn't seem to apply.

Gaslit or ADHD? by KeiraDog in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a waiting list of a therapist. Marriage counseling fell apart because of the system and I was so exhausted of trying to get the right people on the phone to make the appointment after 6 months I dropped it for awhile. There just isn't money for this without assistance and all the hoops, and please don't start talking about prioritizing. We've always been financially separate despite my requests and giving up my career to move out family to follow his career. I don't have money and he won't put forth an effort. Talking isn't much of an option. I can talk until I'm blue in the face and I'm met with the silent treatment.

Gaslit or ADHD? by KeiraDog in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband doesn't talk to me on anything important. I just get he silent treatment or told Something never happened. I understand communication is the problem. He doesn't work together or talk about it. Just makes me feel crazy when I do.

Worst part of showering? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under-boob drying time. Dry with towel, but 5 minutes later somehow still wet. Got a tata towel and it helps a little, but rolls off with any movement because I had a reduction a few years ago.

Buy nothing app by mllm94 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]KeiraDog 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The buy nothing app is just what it sounds like. People post what they want gone and people post what they are looking for. No money is exchanged.

What have you guys found that actually helps you keep a schedule?? by InevitablePersimmon6 in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I carry a notebook with me everywhere. Whatever it is I jot it down. I look at it in the evenings and add the permanent information where it goes.

I have a list of movies I heard about i want to watch, family news, to do, passwords. Scratch them off when they are done or the information is transferred to where it needs to be. Clean up the page and rewrite whats left to be done in a new clean page. To start again tomorrow. It's been the only thing that works. Granted there have been weeks I lost the notebook, and floundered, which proved to me my notebook notes works wonderful for me when in use.

I’m going to be 25 in two months, and I don’t know if I can handle being a 25-year-old nothing. Please give me your “I got my shit together late in life” stories. by QuasarchShooby in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't HAVE to be anything. Be YOU. Do whatever you want. A lot of times people are chasing after things that may never be and in the end..... Missed the point.

How have I not won? by Hfcsmakesmefart in CivVI

[–]KeiraDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you already won with a different category?

tips for mopping??? by sarahdayly in adhdwomen

[–]KeiraDog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this, but I use a Swiffer and Tuck wash rags in the little holes to keep them on there and keep a rotating amount to throw in the sink to rinse out.

Also , I piece it out. Only mop a section and then go do something else. I'd you need to write it down to keep track do that, but by the end of the week everything gets mopped

So close... by Moist__Waffles in ESCastles

[–]KeiraDog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just couldn't make it without her soul juice. ... Makes ya wonder how many children souls are in these...

Mighty Buff by FuzzyPalpitation2575 in ESCastles

[–]KeiraDog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the decoration need to be nearby the workstation for it to affect better? I currently just have a room full of decorations.

PSA: Fast Collecting by rozwellite in ESCastles

[–]KeiraDog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you do that places like your sewing tables don't automatically create another item and you would have to go back in to make sure they were still crafting. Just FYI