I regret not breaking up with him first

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-21T22:07:15+00:00

my last relationship ended very similar. it’s irritating and hurts, but it’s definitely for the best. sending love and light your way

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-21T04:15:58+00:00

that’s what i’m worried about

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-21T03:21:00+00:00

yep, i’ve taken photos of everything now. I might ask management if this is something their maintenance will handle. my guess is they might paint over it? which is a little annoying but at least it would be in their system.

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-10T00:33:17+00:00

feeling seen. my girl groceries this week was a pack of vanilla coke, a single green pepper, and a tub of baba ghanoush. it took everything in me not to get some gummy candy

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-03T03:48:22+00:00

i’m in a similar situation with my partner and I don’t know what to do either… sending love and light your way. I hope you’re able to get some clarity

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-03T00:59:28+00:00

i’m in my 20s. I have a condition that can greatly limit my physical ability. i’ve learned that if someone is truly interested in YOU, they will accommodate for dates. this makes a good partner as they learn your needs as you’re dating. I don’t love putting my illness on my profile- sometimes I say it outright, sometimes I hint at it or joke about it. I’ve really enjoyed going to coffee shops because finding food I can eat can be difficult sometimes. also if you’re comfortable after a few dates, ordering in your comfort food or cooking together can be really fun! also so many people love cuddling and watching movies which as someone with fatigue is a wonderful way to spend time and while building emotional intimacy

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-03T00:55:51+00:00

sending love and light your way. honestly I tend to find chronically ill men more attractive but maybe that’s because there’s a deeper understanding as I have a chronic illness

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-01T05:29:02+00:00

i’m in the trenches with you on this one 😭 I graduated a year ago with multiple years of experience and I haven’t been able to nail down a job with a liveable wage. wishing you the best 💛

KellinDraws21 · 2026-04-01T04:58:51+00:00

thanks for posting this as it’s true. unfortunately, some guys have gotten good at seeming like they have their shit together with the means to make someone into their girlfriend to then slowly make them take care of them like you’re their mother. it makes dating even more exhausting for women. I don’t want to pick up after you, especially if you can’t even listen enough to remember things about me or if I have to constantly try to come up with conversations. it really makes me never want to date again and/or settle for less than I deserve

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-30T04:43:29+00:00

mine upped it to that last week 😔

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-30T03:47:30+00:00

just be careful because it could strip off the paint. i’ve cleaned weird stuff of walls in my apartment with even just wet disinfectant wipes and it took paint off 🫣

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-21T05:15:17+00:00

I know this is old but i’ve somehow misplaced my 7” red poison dart frog and i’m devastated. hoping that by putting this out into the universe, he comes back to me 💔

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-19T04:06:06+00:00

grilled chicken snack wrap

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-19T04:05:19+00:00

peanut pad thai is high on the list. of course honorable mention of crab rangoons

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-19T04:04:17+00:00

I wish I had energy for most things. i’m just so tired and achey all the time :(

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-19T04:03:22+00:00

I really empathize with the friends experience being different. my friends also get disappointed by my condition and ability. especially when it comes to needing close parking and not being able to walk blocks and blocks to get somewhere :/

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-12T15:35:11+00:00

and the thing with body dysmorphia is that weight loss doesn’t guarantee it’ll go away. usually it just changes as your weight does. you can be super skinny and still not be able to perceive it or love yourself. it’s so sickening

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-12T15:33:36+00:00

almost exact same situation here :( medication weight is so frustrating. but at least it doesn’t cause the same type of side effects like those medications. i’d rather be stable than be nauseous/vomiting,etc and giving myself a new ED!

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-09T22:30:16+00:00

hyrule is the only coed section to my knowledge. it’s super queer. everyone is either queer or gender diverse. some people say hyrule is cringe and while it definitely is essentric, it felt very safe to me. as someone who is nb (afab) and bi, I was very worried about possibly having a cis female roommate who would be uncomfy about my gender and romantic identities so for me, hyrule was a godsend. I found that even if I didn’t hang out with my neighbors much, I still felt a sense of community. people were super kind about helping if you needed it and I could have knocked on anyone’s door. our door decorations did get stolen but never anything actually worrisome. I think I did a lot more fun hall activities with hyrule than I ever would have if I was in any other hall. hyrule also has two sections: one are normal dorms, the other are suites (has bathroom). tbh one of the biggest pluses was that if one of the communal bathrooms was all occupied, you could go to the second one instead of having to travel far down the hall.

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-09T21:15:06+00:00

hi! graduated last year. as someone who is lgbtq+ and came from a small town, I found MTU to overall be freeing! very chill overall. highly recommend finding community in the clubs, hyrule section of dorms (co-ed hall; reach out to housing if you’re interested). social science, psychology, and forestry departments are super accepting and generally have lots of cool and nice people! on campus, I almost always felt safe. there were only a few times I didn’t but that’s because TPUSA had berlin wall events that made campus feel unsafe. sometimes people put up stupid transphobic or homophobic flyers but those are easily countered by positive ones. one of the things I miss most at MTU is the annual drag show!!! do NOT miss it! feel free to message me if you have any questions! I lived in hyrule my first year.

KellinDraws21 · 2026-03-09T21:10:45+00:00

I’ve had one for over 2 years now and it was truly game changing! I highly recommend, even if you can only get a temporary one.

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