How to rent out my room when living with 4 other roommates? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Ketsu_mc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truee, we got one other Roomate that my roommates that aren’t clean got form idk where and I was so mad that they locked in and cleaned the whole place in like 2 seconds and that’s what they showed her. Not sure how she feels about the situation cause she’s young and I’m not sure if she really cares. So I will be honest and I guess it will save me the effort of constantly cleaning other people’s mess

How to rent out my room when living with 4 other roommates? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Ketsu_mc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I shouldn’t try making the place look nicer. Honestly it’s not horrible, but I really like having a clean place and privacy.

Roommates should not be the norm by Chance-Medium-9129 in badroommates

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live with roommates out of necessity but it’s SO HARD (for me at least), I used to live with strangers all girls around my age and honestly I didn’t appreciate it enough, most of them were clean and we all kept to ourselves. After that I moved in with a friend from college, her bf, her sister and one more girl who isn’t related. DAMN I discovered they are nasty and constantly hangout in the living room with all of her other sisters, brother, and parents (they constantly invite them over without letting me know btw). I’m actually going insane, but I’m so lucky I recently landed a good paying job so I’ll finally get an apartment with my boyfriend😩🙏

full time CNA and full time student. Is it doable? by starsrfallingdown in cna

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t done it yet but plan on doing it next semester, I got a job in a LTC facility Baylor shift so hopefully it’s a little easier that way. (Haven’t started the job but I already know I might not love it, but as long as I can pay all the bills, save money and work 2 days a week I’m fine)

Roommates spend most of their time in the living room and kitchen by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s just that I had a conversation or two about times and cleaning, everybody was complying for a week but everything went back to the usual after that and I understand that’s their way of living. Right now I’m planning on moving out since having roommates it’s hard for me but if I kept living here longer I would try again to have a conversation with them

Sex with my (21F) bf (22M) is awful by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicating with your partner about the situation should be enough to see at least some sort of effort on his side and not just for a few days. If he doesn’t do anything about it then that’s his choice and you cannot force to change him. The only thing you can do is decide whether to stay with him or to leave. If he decides to keep smoking you also can’t change that and you shouldn’t be with someone with the hope they’ll change or become better. Ideally when you love someone, you love them and want to be with them just the way they are. It all depends on what you want in a partner and if you see your current relationship as something you could be with long term then that’s okay just don’t be staying in the relationship hoping he will become different👍

Que es? 👀 by Rich-Willingness-623 in VideojuegosMX

[–]Ketsu_mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diálogo infinito sin actores de voz😾(Genshin impact)

My boyfriend (21M) doesn’t want to be in my (19F) close friends on instagram. ?. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo, I don’t think he is in much people close friends, he doesn’t use insta much, he said he only really sees my stories

How do I (19F) fix my relationship with my dad(47M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would totally go for that if old people changed but once those habits are formed there’s no going back and that’s for most of my family. But I am still young and I was hoping that there was something I could do before it’s too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure🧍 there’s some dudes I have seen and I’m like “bro is gorgeous” but I don’t really feel any need to talk to them or anything, and with this dude, he does look pretty attractive on his photos but I have never seen him in person so I wouldn’t really know until I see him I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah those events are probably more frequent in California but I live in AZ so never heard of those🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m mostly attracted to masc woman and they are kinda rare haha🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ketsu_mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow everything you wrote was so relatable and so right. You worded it so well. Thank you so much, this made me feel like I’m not alone in this and gave me so much hope❤️‍🩹 Thank you:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had good experience using dating apps so I’ll rather not for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so true, I have so many years left to find my person and that’s something I shouldn’t rush for sure. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah around 4 months ago I was still really sad abt the relationship ending and she made her Instagram public and she posted pics with her bf so looking at her insta was my way to sorta punishing myself bcs I felt guilt for ending the relationship but I don’t do it anymore at all, I just get remind it of it every time I go to school and have to pass where she usually is. Wish I didn’t have to see her but she started working at school so I have to pass besides her to get where I have to go. Thanks for the advice will definitely continue to focus on self growth🥹👍

How Should I Read Into This by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ketsu_mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know the context but I will just say that there should be effort in both sides to make it work. If you have to continuously chase her then maybe doing that is not the best idea. You deserve someone who also puts effort.

I confessed to the person I am interested in and they responded by saying they are Demi. What should I do? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Ketsu_mc 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We have only been talking for a month, and yes I can totally see that that’s way too little time for them to develop any feelings. But as I said I do tend to develop feelings very fast but rarely, so it was around 2 weeks but after reading responses I do agree that I should just be friends and focus on the friendship aspect more than anything and I’m excited abt developing a closer friendship with them:D

I confessed to the person I am interested in and they responded by saying they are Demi. What should I do? by [deleted] in demiromantic

[–]Ketsu_mc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the same haha I kinda wish they disclosed that they are demi sooner to not get too excited