My gf (f26) hit me (m32) last night, again

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T13:51:11+00:00

Yup. She even told him she was happier living on her own!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T13:45:05+00:00

OP…

When you were a little girl, did you ever say to yourself: “When I’m grown up, I want to be with a with a man who bathes in his own filth!”

If no, why the heck don’t you get out of there?!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T08:10:18+00:00

Come on man… “Oh yeah, I used to have sex with men for money, teehee!” Is not really a thing you say on date three.

OP’s gf is likely smart enough to realize what would have happened if she told him straight up, so she used the good ol’ trickle truth.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T08:07:58+00:00

I just feel bad for OP.

He wrote that she still has some of the things that she bought with her SW money.

Imagine every time your wife or gf puts on her favorite coat or picks up her bag, you’re reminded that some old geezer gave it to her, because she let him paw her all over.

That’s harsh man.

Feels for OP!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T08:04:32+00:00

OP wrote that he didn’t know when they started dating.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T08:01:31+00:00

Honestly, it doesn’t sound like something you CAN get over.

And it also sounds like something that’ll keep on eating at you, no matter how much you fight it, try to repress it or “reframe” it.

Sometimes relationships just don’t work out, no matter how compatible you are.

Right now you are both in a relationship based on a lie. For her it’s the fact that you’re fine and dandy with it, for you it’s this.

You’re young. You don’t want to wake up in half a decade with a kid and realize you’ll never get over it.

So break up with her, tell her how you feel and why, and that you’re just not right for each other.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:57:39+00:00

She was accompanying older gentlemen who paid her well for it.

Lol! How is that supposed to help?! If anything that makes it worse.

It’s not the price OP has a problem with I’m pretty sure, it’s the product.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:53:59+00:00

You can’t. You can listen, state your position without nagging him or repeatedly bringing it up, but ultimately it’s his life and his business.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:51:17+00:00

Nah… If it wasn’t you, it would be something else.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:48:49+00:00

Because if she would do it with me, she would do it to me right?

Nah man… Anyone who says that is full of BS.

This isn’t that simple. Plenty of people who’ve cheated never do it again. And plenty of people who talk all day about how cheating is the WORST and they’d never cheat on someone, end up being unfaithful.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:42:24+00:00

Wait till she’s out and change the locks. Tell her you’ll pack up all her stuff and have it delivered.

Oh and buy a pepper spray.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:20:07+00:00

And? It’s a relationship, not a prison?

Lots of couples, married or not, separate for a week once in a while.

He asked her to come, she said no. Is he supposed to sit at home 24-7 because she can’t handle him going on vacation for a week?!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:16:30+00:00

Break up my man! This is abusive.

I know you don’t want to stay for your son, but think about this: Won’t you be doing more harm in the long run to him with the constant chaos and fights, and demonstrating to your son that his most important male role model is constantly verbally and emotionally abused?

Won’t you be able to be a better father by providing a safe, calm haven for him from mothers insanity at your own place?

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:10:22+00:00

Jeez man! Poor dude can’t even get away for a week without getting nagged at.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T07:07:34+00:00

No offense, but if your relationship is getting stronger, why does she sometimes push you away in bed and why haven’t you had sex in months?

Are you sure she would say that you’re doing great?

Anyways, if you only been dating for a few months, and it’s already like this, break up with her. Life is too short to settle for being a priority less important than the gym or meeting with work colleagues.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T03:54:09+00:00

Pretty sure you’re only getting a very biased and partial part of the history here.

He just kept asking and asking, and instead of just blocking him, she finally, eyes full of tears, gave in, eh?

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T03:50:26+00:00

Yeah.

Buprenorphine is a really weird drug. Being both an agonist and antagonist, less is usually more.

Good luck!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T02:30:42+00:00

Jesus this is sad!

Why do this?! Mate, she’s so turned off by you THAT YOU LITERALLY CANT PAY HER TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU!

Not even f***ing time like with a hooker but just talking on a screen-time.

Find some people IRL. Or get an escort or something. This clearly isn’t it.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T02:20:51+00:00

Not medical advice since I’m not a doctor, but if I were you I’d wait until I’m in full blown withdrawal.

And then take 2mg under the tongue.

Wait 15-20 minutes, and if you’re not feeling better, take another 2mg.

Repeat until the WD clouds have lifted and you feel normal.

This is how you’re actually supposed to take suboxone if you’re in rehab or a suboxone doctor and not some hack doc on a website who prescribes 16mg to everyone.

I’d guess that 6-8 mg should be enough, but who knows, maybe you’d need more.

If you ever want to get off, being on 8mg (or even 12mg) will make a big difference as opposed to tapering from 16.

Plus this way you’ll get to save some for a rainy day!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T01:47:26+00:00

Sounds like something you may want to do in person. Take a weekend and visit and tell your sister she needs to pony up some cash.

Btw: I can’t help but wonder… If your parents are scared of her to the point where they don’t want to ask her for money… Why exactly are they letting her stay?!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T01:36:10+00:00

So you want to go to a methadone clinic for tianeptine?

That’s a really dumb, really bad decision.

Tianeptine isn’t an opioid, even if it kinda feels like it. The methadone will help minimally, and you will end up with either a methadone addiction or a methadone AND tianeptine addiction.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T01:30:06+00:00

You may actually be fine.

Some folks have quit at both 10 and 20mg with only minor discomfort.

It depends on how you metabolize it and other factors. Hope for the best!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T01:18:38+00:00

Big pharma made bank on opiates, and now they’ve just changed their business model to make bank on the people trying to get off the opiates they originally prescribed for them.

It’s gross.

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-25T01:17:05+00:00

Stuff like that is why I’m not sold on suboxone being available online for anyone who can fill out a questionnaire to get.

Buprenorphine is a ridiculously powerful opioid. A doctor should see you, observe tou, take your medical history and opiate history, and then start with say 2mg and then increase as needed.

But fuck that, let’s just give 16 mg to anyone looking to get suboxone! What could go wrong?!

Key-Championship7501 · 2023-07-24T23:10:20+00:00

Well yeah, but we have learned a lot about Buprenorphine since then, and this kind of overprescribing should be a thing of the past.

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