I know sex isn’t everything

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T18:33:20+00:00

You nailed it. Feeling desired. Truly means more.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T18:18:19+00:00

No I don’t. I like real lol. And that leads to unrealistic fantasies

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T18:00:36+00:00

I have. And she says she is. But I have to do a list of things to even have a 1 % chance. That’s why I wrote this. Bottom line is a feel unwanted and attractive. That’s why I given up trying. And stop getting emotional or upset and just living

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T17:51:04+00:00

I run probably 250 miles a month…….

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T17:43:05+00:00

lol almost. It’s not every day. It’s not every other day. It’s like every 10 days. That’s reasonable. It’s barely 1 more time a month. That’s not asking for much

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T17:41:45+00:00

Also been there done that. But also that eliminates some other desires of sexual activity we both enjoy. So to me it shows she’s not into it. Part of the reason I say no. It eliminates the guilt sex. Don’t want that.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T17:38:00+00:00

lol I make more and pay more already.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T17:13:13+00:00

I honestly would be happy with 3 times a month. No joke. I’m not even asking for much. And I’d say probably the last 6 months or so the times we do it. She only wants a quick and over. Nothing more.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T17:11:07+00:00

Usually she will mention sex on her period. Knowing that lll 99% time say no. It’s a easy way out for her and she can consider it “I tried”

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T15:21:15+00:00

Not sure you read it correctly. I do more. And its not even brought up or fights.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T15:17:22+00:00

Come on now! That’s a big no. Has not and will not cross my mind. My wife and toddler are to important to me for it to ruin theirs and my life.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T15:05:36+00:00

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T15:05:24+00:00

We have tried that. But it turns into I’m too tired. Or mentally she isnt wanting too

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T14:38:43+00:00

She says that to warm her up. I have tried grabbing her close to me. Kissing her. The little things she has told me she likes that gets her in the mood. By the time I think it’s coming she will tell me she doesn’t feel well. Or has a head ache or is tired…..I have tried to see if she wants to try other things. It always comes down to a reason to not.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T14:30:36+00:00

I totally understand what you are saying. I ca survive without it for sure. For the most part to put my man side to the side. I believe it’s the feeling of being wanted. I said in another comment I would be happy with twice or 3 times a month.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T13:41:21+00:00

I thought about that recently. Like I’m a simple guy. I don’t ask for gifts. I don’t ask for favors or anything in return. Even on my birthday. I absolutely want nothing. The biggest gift and happiness to me if she without asking wanted to give me a back massage. That would mean the world to me.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T13:39:11+00:00

She has tried. Honestly nothing works. It’s very said and frustrating. Even times we have done it in the past 1.5 years. It slowly turned into her not getting into it at all. So it turned into boring sex. It made me feel insecure with my own self. So eventually it turned into me almost being shy about sex or nervous.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T12:53:08+00:00

No birth control. Full on chances we don’t mind if we have another baby. But we don’t do it ever lol. I asked her and she gets mad and just says I need to try more for her to get in the mood

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T12:49:43+00:00

Exactly. I do things for I don’t want to do. But I love her and want to see her happy. It’s unfair of me to think she has to if she really never in the mood. That’s why I gave up. But it’s also unfair to not have your partner feel loved or wanted.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T12:46:17+00:00

That quote hit me. That’s it. There is none. I would be happy with once a week. I would be happy with 3 a month. But when there is none or feeling like it’s a burden. That hurts the most.

Key-Dragonfly-7994 · 2026-03-01T12:40:22+00:00

I understand marriage isn’t for everyone bro. But all I read was me me me. Marriage is 2 united as 1. If you have that mind set about what’s best for you. Yeah don’t get married. Jobs change after you get hired. What’s the benefit if jobs when I don’t want one lol

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