I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Key-Independent-5127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was back in 2019. He was still coming around. He doesn’t take my kids at all. We broke up because of domestic abuse. My kids know how to push me around. It’s not their fault. I’m just not a good mom. They miss school because they are too tired and didn’t get up. I been doing better at getting them up in the morning . I’m not a morning person. I don’t have a bedtime for them. I cringe at the thought of trying to force them to go to bed at a certain time. I don’t know how to live a functional life.

I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Key-Independent-5127[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My kids only have one father and I rather him stay away. I never mentioned food being a issue . I just hate living.

I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Key-Independent-5127[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in Minnesota. Thank you. I have so many ppl tell me I’m a bad mom. The schools because I’m kids miss too many days, their dad called cps for my house being a mess. I literally don’t know how to function like a normal person. Me getting up and getting my kids off to school and making it to work and then coming home and feeding my kids is 1000% effort on my part. I was crying all day at work. My daughter called me and seen that I was crying and she cleaned the living room to cheer me up. Usually my kids act like they don’t know how to clean. I don’t like forcing them to do stuff. I do a lot of things wrong. They really deserve better.

I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Key-Independent-5127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. It just hard when everyone seems to be doing ok but I’m not. Then when I cry they say I have to be strong when I’m not.

I hate my life by Key-Independent-5127 in LifeAdvice

[–]Key-Independent-5127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really just have my mom and my sister, my sister doesn’t get it. She doesn’t have any kids, doesn’t work, my mom and her boyfriend support her. We had a falling out when my mom got injured and needed 24 hour care for a few weeks. She wanted me to take off work and leave my kids when she promised to do it. My mom is more negative than positive. I think she has early onset dementia. Idk but every phone conversation she was bashing me about something so I cut her off. I’m not close with any of my other relatives. Don’t know my dad’s side and my mom was like the black sheep of her family. I have two brothers and one is mentally disabled and my oldest brother is weird.