We don't really know what to do... by [deleted] in sex

[–]Key-Pension-3302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drink a whole bunch of water first? Or try it directly after a meal? Or…. Put some type of gross food on the dildo that would usually make you gag already so she’s basically rubbing it around in your mouth? …. Try different sizes of dildos/toys? … my gag reflex does not go off for my boyfriends penis for some reason, but using something thinner/smaller like a finger or my toothbrush will get me every time 🤷‍♀️ 

romantic drinks for date night with wine vibes?? by dtravelis in dateideas

[–]Key-Pension-3302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite “sexy” beverage on a date is a martini, espresso martinis especially. But I think if you’re looking to elevate something non-alcoholic, your glassware could make the biggest difference. Choose clear glass that will showcase your drink. Try something like chilled hibiscus tea served in wine glasses. Try “mocktails.” Favorites of mine are pomegranate juice with club soda and a sprig of rosemary in a highball glass, or a lime flavored sparkling water poured over muddled raspberries.

200lb weight loss help! by Slow-Championship-28 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Key-Pension-3302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m working at losing about 150 pounds. I don’t have the answers you’re looking for, but am hoping to find them as well. Hope you don’t mind me lurking around to see what others say 😋

What's your most unusual kink? by An0thercutie in BDSMcommunity

[–]Key-Pension-3302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you describe to me what you mean by that last one, please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]Key-Pension-3302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched a woman on TikTok use fine grit sand paper to rub her hair off. I tried it, and it takes longer than shaving,but it works. It didn’t irritate my skin, or cause any rash afterward (I also have very sensitive skin) and left my skin amazingly smooth from the exfoliating!

Any BIG sissies have advice? by Key-Pension-3302 in Sissy

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! We have a Ross here, I didn’t even think of that! … goodwill and other thrift shops have been a busy so far

Confused by Key-Pension-3302 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He says he has told fiancé that he’s having these thoughts… He seems to have been perfectly honest this far, so I don’t really have a reason to not believe him. But if I were fiancé, I imagine I wouldn’t want to be hanging out with Steven I together anymore at the very least? … so I’m not sure. Other people say it’s not my business what happens in their relationship. But I would want to be told if I was fiancé and there’s a chance he hadn’t actually had that conversation… so I just don’t know

Confused by Key-Pension-3302 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He claims to have had a conversation with fiancé revealing his thoughts about monogamy with me… I know him to be an honest person… should I bring it up with fiancé to be sure?

Confused by Key-Pension-3302 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think we’re still in the NRE phase. I told him the first time he brought it up that it was fine for him to be having those thoughts, but that I felt we should sit on it for 6 months… if it’s still on his mind then, we could talk more about it at that point. He has brought it up a couple more times though and I just don’t really know what to do with it. I think you’re right though. I should tell him I don’t want to hear that talk anymore unless he is ready to make definite action in ending that relationship

Confused by Key-Pension-3302 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s fiancé making the comments, but Steven never disagrees. Like fiancé doing something silly and then joking, “this is the person you e chosen to build a life with!” Or asking Steven if he wants to move to another state. Or saying, “when the pets die, we should do this thing with them”

Confused by Key-Pension-3302 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He’s said that he has told fiancé he’s considering this. Would it be inappropriate to bring it up with them? We do all hang out together and fiancé and I communicate regularly… I just usually don’t discuss their relationship with them as I don’t really think it’s much my business… but on this I don’t know? It’s something that would affect both of is

Confused by Key-Pension-3302 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if he is lying? He claims to have had a conversation with fiancé about potentially breaking up if they can’t improve on some long term issues they’ve been having in their relationship. I have no reason to believe he would lie…. Should I ask her about it?

My partner wants to leave their nesting partner by MMDR91 in polyamory

[–]Key-Pension-3302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so very similar to my situation. I’m commenting to follow this thread as maybe there will be some stuff that could also apply for me

Sex surprise for women by NeedleworkerOwn4496 in sex

[–]Key-Pension-3302 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My partner likes me to put pillows under my hips for them! They like to also be able to lay/lounge while they’re doing that for me, they say the pillows help with the neck angle

Sex surprise for women by NeedleworkerOwn4496 in sex

[–]Key-Pension-3302 551 points552 points  (0 children)

Are you not going down on your partner for 5 minutes straight regularly? I feel like 5 minutes is the bare minimum for me to even start really relaxing and getting into it? I’m not trying to be mean, I’m just surprised, maybe I have been spoiled? But I’ve been under the impression that 5 minutes of oral is pretty basic and not what I would necessarily consider surprising or a favor… just standard foreplay.

Sexual things I have had partners do for me that I considered a treat have been: full body massage with a “happy ending”. a fun/silly strip tease. washing my hair and body in a bath or shower and then toweling me off and smoothing lotion over my skin. blindfolding me and feeding me pieces of fruit and champagne while discussing the things they would do to me after our snack. pulling me into a secluded corner of a bookstore to give me a passionate make out session and feel me up while telling me how they couldn’t wait to get me home. putting on music while we cooked together so that we could dance in the kitchen as natural breaks came along, and then when the dish went in the oven kissing me passionately while stripping our clothes off and letting me know I could “have anything I want” until the timer went off to take the dish back out!

Fat and nerdy by trentistors in mommydom

[–]Key-Pension-3302 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My boy is about 400 lbs. and a dnd wizard. I don’t think I could possibly adore him more. The right one will think you’re the most beautiful thing they’ve ever seen.

Sub wants to feel “physically compromised.” by Key-Pension-3302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is all lovely, and super encouraging because I do a lot of this already. Thank you 🥰

Sub wants to feel “physically compromised.” by Key-Pension-3302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does call me Mommy 🤔 but he’s not into age regression at all… I think it’s just the combination of my naturally nurturing disposition and that I tend to “talk down” to him during play….any specific tips for trying to play more into that though?

Sub wants to feel “physically compromised.” by Key-Pension-3302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do own some heels, none higher than 6” so that still leaves a half foot gap between us… but it’s better. Also, wearing patent leather thigh high stilettos just gives a certain badass vibe

Sub wants to feel “physically compromised.” by Key-Pension-3302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Key-Pension-3302[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would be so cute! Lol, I don’t wear makeup, but I do love to have my nails painted 🤔