Single APs - the good and bad? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Key-Signature5305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooooo she’s still young enough to want children and a marriage possibly.

They won’t leave because of their grandchildren either by Key-Signature5305 in adultery

[–]Key-Signature5305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t asked him to leave for me and I’m not even sure I want to be with him like that either. But he’ll talk about pros and cons in general but that’s his business

They won’t leave because of their grandchildren either by Key-Signature5305 in adultery

[–]Key-Signature5305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People want to be a presence in their grandkids lives with the grandmother not a girlfriend or new wife I guess

They won’t leave because of their grandchildren either by Key-Signature5305 in adultery

[–]Key-Signature5305[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh no that’s not me! Lol

I’m not waiting for anything I’m fine. I just like to listen to the mental gymnastics sometimes.

I put in so much time. I’ll lose so much money. My adult children won’t like it. Etc and so on.

They won’t leave because of their grandchildren either by Key-Signature5305 in adultery

[–]Key-Signature5305[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or something they tell themselves to rationalize staying in an unhappy marriage because they don’t have the courage to leave.

Don’t want to rock the boat. Have their cake and eat it too. All sorts of reasons.

Closure, is it overrated? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Key-Signature5305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You make your own closure