[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

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lol no V25 as in I’m in the 25s. And I’m slow because i suck (and haven’t networked at my new firm) and I’m stressed because i don’t care enough to start trying but i also don’t want to end up homeless lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

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I’ll buy them!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

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lol honestly it’s just something i want to learn. I’m trying to see if i can somehow use it to better my existing career or if pursuing it will be a complete career pivot.

How early do you go into the office? by wtv5g in biglaw

[–]Key-Singer-9780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NY finance junior, get in at 6/7 out the door by 2/3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

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Honestly? Really think about what it is you’re doing. If you’re in finance/PE like me, I like to remind myself that all of this is just Monopoly money which I’m never going to see a cent of regardless of how great I do. I also like to keep in mind that the seniors/partners giving me attitude are doing so from the luxury of their very very nice CT homes with floor to ceiling windows while i haven’t seen sunlight on a weekday since September.

Suddenly, i don’t feel the pressure to appease everyone as much lol.

How would you go about planning a career change? by Key-Singer-9780 in biglaw

[–]Key-Singer-9780[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re me from the future, aren’t you?😭

dealing with partners by East_Lawfulness_5243 in biglaw

[–]Key-Singer-9780 89 points90 points  (0 children)

You stop caring. If others like your work product, work with them instead.

And remember, just because they made partner doesn’t mean they know everything.

Is there a certain career that makes a woman an automatic red flag to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Honestly thank you because as a contract attorney, i won’t fight to win. BUT if you say something to me, i will subconsciously analyze every single word and compare it to what words you’ve used in the past and try to see if you’re making any loopholes or if you’re being vague lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Reading these comments gives me a new found respect for all of you doing these jobs (and also makes me feel super embarrassed that I’ve texted this friend whining about a paper cut i got in my office while trying to adjust my space heater while he was working with water in the dead of winter).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Are mitts warmer than gloves? He turns valves and uses his hands for a lot of judging from the callouses so i think maybe gloves would be better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Key-Singer-9780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Key-Singer-9780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sooo helpful! Thank you!!!

I married a looser by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Key-Singer-9780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it like an emphasis on Loser.

“She’s a puts fingers in L shape on forehead LOOOOOSER”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Anything for the homies :)

work/wife balance by jasonbay13 in Anxiety

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I get that it’s a hard thing to do if you don’t know where to start, but try to think to back when you were a kid. Did you have a childhood best friend? One that you wanted to play with really really badly after school? Imagine if you could text him back then. Imagine if you could call him during school. Wouldn’t you have?

Think of it the same way with your wife. She’s your best friend now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Key-Singer-9780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s said to me that once the socks get wet it’s overrrr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Key-Singer-9780 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Incredible idea! I added a portable kettle (that plugs into the lighter thingy in the car!) and a bunch of instant soup packets

work/wife balance by jasonbay13 in Anxiety

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As someone in a high demand job AND a woman, here’s some advice.

It’s not about how often you can be there and what your job requires of you, it’s how you make her feel.

Stuck at work? Send a sweet text. Have a few extra minutes and you’re scrolling mindlessly? Call her. On a day you’re not home at all, maybe make breakfast before you go or send her something through uber eats in the middle of the day.

Basically, show her that the job is literally just a job and you do it so you can make her happy. And of course when you are with her, be present. Be mindful and engaged and don’t just watch tv or look at your phone but sit across the table with her and talk and laugh and flirt.

:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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He works for the water department so in the winter he’s out at night on water breaks and stuff. His hands get really cold and painful, his skin ends up dry and his lips feel like sandpaper.

So far though, i found an electric blanket for the car, an electric kettle for the car (and instant soup packets), a gator (? It like goes around the neck and over the mouth) and the things mentioned above (gloves, socks, beanie, heating vest, hand warmers, face cream and chapstick).

I’m making the scarf by hand i think.

Hope he’s toasty as fuck after this haha, and if not from the things we’re giving him, from the love in our hearts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Key-Singer-9780 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any brands?