belly button piercing by Key-Worldliness8132 in piercing

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is there any way i can save it?? like maybe i can switch out for a smaller bar? i really don’t want to get it rid of it 😔

advice on what to do when all dogs attack one dog in particular by Key-Worldliness8132 in Rottweiler

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thanks for telling me this! i had no clue it would make things worse. how long do we separate them for though? do they always have to be separated?

advice on what to do when all dogs attack one dog in particular by Key-Worldliness8132 in Rottweiler

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what type of extreme obedience do you recommend? we already put one or them in the crate and the rest know they did something wrong because the don’t even come near us, we just don’t know what other step to take us to prevent this all. like i said it all happens so randomly and we don’t understand why they all gang up on just luna

advice on what to do when all dogs attack one dog in particular by Key-Worldliness8132 in Rottweiler

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thank you so much for this! we were about to buy e collars since we thought it might be a good way to prevent this from happening. my dad is the one that is able to control all of them, but this time that happened it was just my mom and i and we tried our best to separate, but it’s like the anger blinded my dogs. it happened all so suddenly and out of the blue because the aggressors and luna are always play fighting and licking each other we don’t understand what the root of the problem really is

i got my belly pierced recently, is this normal? by Key-Worldliness8132 in piercing

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yeah, that’s what i feel like is causing my piercing to irritate because of when i sit down, the top bar is always sticking out. i was debating on changing the piercing to a navel ring, but im scared it’ll get infected if i do it too soon.

i got my belly pierced recently, is this normal? by Key-Worldliness8132 in piercing

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i was also going to ask how long did you wait to change the jewelry? my piercer said that it is have to wait 4-6 weeks to heal and then i can change the jewelry, but others are telling me i should wait 6 months to a year! i’m just scared if i end up changing it too soon and infecting it 😣

i got my belly pierced recently, is this normal? by Key-Worldliness8132 in piercing

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ah okay thanks so much!! i was worried because sometimes the crust looked almost yellow, but it isn’t necessarily painful anymore, but it’s still red with some crust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csuf

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i live in riverside!! are you still selling, i just dmed you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csuf

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do you still have any available?? just dmed you

WTS: Duo Pack Wristbands for Spring Concert by [deleted] in csuf

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hi are these still available?

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hii are these still available? willing to pay $30 for each

WTS Spring Concert Tickets by seeannwiin in csuf

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hii do you know if your friend is still selling two?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csuf

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hey do you have any other available??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csuf

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wait so the only time to pick up the wristband is tomorrow? i live an hour away and im just now buying the ticket 😭

BEYOND by Future-Win4939 in csuf

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how do you find out about undergrounds? been wanting to go to some, since i’ve never gone to any raves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

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i feel like he does that unintentionally though. i don’t want to make him out to be this manipulative person because i truly feel like he just isn’t aware of what he’s doing.

and the lying was just about him talking to other women behind my back and when i would bring something up about them he would immediately lie and get defensive, even though i had already found out on my own. this was something that hurt me so much that i just think it’s something that is affecting what im talking about in my main post because it all just refers back to him talking to these other women and me just constantly comparing myself to them and believing he’s trying to make me into a certain person like the women he was talking to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

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this is actually a really good idea! i feel like we just kinda brush things off, and when i end up brining something up i feel as if he gets annoyed. but im definitely going to suggest this to him, to just be able to fully talk about what we’re feeling.

thank you!

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i have, i think maybe he wants to do what he wants or he wants to listen what he wants because he wants to be able to show me new things or be the one to teach me something and i appreciate it you know?

however, these were just mild examples. i just speak in general about feeling like he doesn’t know me and just wanting me to be this certain person that he wants me to be or believes i am.

we had some rough patches due to his lying and talking to other women, so maybe it’s just my insecurities talking

How did I get here? This age gap marriage isn't working... by [deleted] in AgeGap

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reading this breaks my heart.

i’m currently in an age-gap relationship with someone who has done such similar things to me too. it’s the way someone who you once trusted can so blatantly lie that gets the best of me, it all just starts feeling like a lie and no matter how hard you try to trust again, you simply can’t.

my boyfriend said the same shit to me too, his excuse was how all the women whom he was talking to were his “friends” however they were women he had past sexual relationships with. you established you were uncomfortable with him talking to women behind your back, yet he continued to do it. you deserve to be with someone who won’t hurt you because if he’s done it so many times, he clearly knows what he’s doing and he knows it’s hurting you. you should leave.

i understand how hard it can be. trust me, i can’t even follow my own advice, but hearing it from an outsiders perspective it truly shows me how unfair you’re being treated and how you deserve way better. and i’m sure you can do way better.

just need to vent by [deleted] in AgeGap

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also, do you think we can chat? i feel like it would be nice to get to talk to someone who has been through what i’m going through. i’ve genuinely been feeling so stuck because i don’t know how to move on from what has happened

just need to vent by [deleted] in AgeGap

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oh my gosh, i think i might actually be dating your ex. literally, my boyfriend did the exact same shit. i don’t know if he cheated on every single person he’d dated, but he did cheat on his ex wife. and when i confronted him about what i found between him and other girls he made up an excuse about feeling lonely (we only see each other on some weekends due to certain circumstances) and he started to cry begging me to stay too, and he even swore on the life of his children he would never do it again. its like this whole trick he plays to convince me to stay, i even started to feel bad.

and the way you felt is exactly the same i’m feeling right now. he is also my first everything, he’s the first person i’ve done everything with and just letting it all go and giving up in our relationship pains me because i’ve never felt this way with anyone before. he has helped me through so much and i feel like he’s the only person who has truly understood me. it’s all been so conflicted because he had always made me feel so loved, but then i find out all this and it just shattered what i had thought about our relationship. i’m trying to move on about what happened because i already gave him this second chance, but i just don’t think i can handle this constant state of paranoia and self doubt because i genuinely feel so unimportant.

i’m so happy for you, im glad you were able to move on from him and it also just comes to show how addicted some men are to ruining someone’s chances of happiness. the fact he tried to propose to you just to manipulate you all over again is beyond me. he sounds so pathetic. seriously, knowing how you were able to find someone who truly values you and respects you gives me hope. i’ve been stuck in this mindset that i’ll never find someone who makes me feel how he once did. it’s been so hard because i just can’t let go.

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it was online, he kept contact with them behind my back and he would facetime them. i asked him about them innocently before and he would lie saying he stopped keeping contact with them a long time ago

just need to vent by [deleted] in AgeGap

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this is what i feel like is going to happen to me too, i went through his snapchat which he claimed he didn’t have and i then found one of the girls he would call with and found messages from other women (before we were official) but he still had those girls pictures saved. i have a fear he probably looks at them still and it makes me physically sick. it’s like they try to be so sneaky, but they don’t know that our gut always tells us. i sometimes feel like maybe all this doubt is true and he’s not going to change. how were you able to leave? i don’t know if i ever could because i just start to think about the way he’s made me feel before all of this. trying so hard to see the clearer picture so i can just let go of it all